New Ways of
Loving challenges
most assumptions about love
and replaces them with new forms of loving relationships:
Romantic love, sexual attraction, & conventional marriage
are replaced by new relationships beginning with our self-inventing
selves.
We can love freely instead of imposing obligations.
We can love without needing, possessiveness, or jealousy.
We can love beyond our imprinted sexual fantasies
and our enculturated gender-personalities.
We can weigh the pros and cons of having children.
And we might even love beyond our existential loneliness.
A Brief History of My Book on Love
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Table of Contents of New Ways of Loving
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Introduction
Replacing
the Old Ways of Loving
PART I: From Romantic Illusions to Authentic Loving
Ch. 1 Romantic
Love is a Hoax!
Emotional
Programming to 'Fall in Love'
Ch. 2 Loving
from Authenticity
PART II: Loving Freely without Needing
Ch. 3 Loving
in Freedom:
Choice
& Flexibility instead of Security & Obligation
Ch. 4 Loving
without Needing:
Seven
Pre-Existing Needs and How to Transcend Them
PART III: Multiple Loving without Jealousy
Ch. 5 Loving
without Jealousy:
As
We Become More Authentic, Jealousy Disappears
Ch. 6 Multiple
Loving: Open Relationships Beyond Jealousy
PART IV: Sex-Scripts & Gender-Personalities
Ch. 7 Loving
Beyond Sex:
Transcending
Our Imprinted Sex-Scripts
Ch. 8 Masculinity/Femininity:
Loving
Beyond Our Gender-Personalities
PART V: Birth Planning
Ch. 9 Why
Have (More) Children?
PART VI: Loving without Marrying and three other chapters
Ch. 10 Loving without Marrying
Ch. 11 Living in Separate Households
Ch. 12 Keeping Relationship Journals
Ch. 13 Loving
in Existential Freedom
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