NEW WAYS OF LOVING:

HOW AUTHENTICITY TRANSFORMS RELATIONSHIPS

a synopsis of each chapter


    Each chapter of New Ways of Loving has been summarized below.
These synopses are generally 1-3 pages in length.
And each one is linked to a presentation of the first two pages of that chapter,
which includes the table of contents of that chapter.
Begin reading these summaries at whatever chapter interests you most.


Introduction

Replacing the Old Ways of Loving

PART I—From Romantic Illusions to Authentic Loving

Ch. 1 Romantic Love is a Hoax!
Emotional Programming to 'Fall in Love'

Ch. 2 Loving from Authenticity

PART II—Loving Freely without Needing

Ch. 3 Loving in Freedom:
Choice & Flexibility instead of Security & Obligation

Ch. 4 Loving without Needing:
Seven Pre-Existing Needs and How to Transcend Them

PART III—Multiple Loving without Jealousy

Ch. 5 Loving without Jealousy:
As We Become More Authentic, Jealousy Disappears

Ch. 6 Multiple Loving: Open Relationships Beyond Jealousy

PART IV—Sex-Scripts & Gender-Personalities

Ch. 7 Loving Beyond Sex:
Transcending Our Imprinted Sex-Scripts

Ch. 8 Masculinity/Femininity:
Loving Beyond Our Gender-Personalities

PART V—Birth Planning

Ch. 9 Why Have (More) Children?

PART VI—Loving without Marrying and three other chapters

Ch. 10 Loving without Marrying

Ch. 11 Living in Separate Households

Ch. 12 Keeping Relationship Journals

Ch. 13 Loving in Existential Freedom

PART VII—Bibliographies

Bibliographies for most chapters of New Ways of Loving

Go to the index page for
New Ways of Loving:
How Authenticity Transforms Relationships

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