EXAMPLES OF LABELING
In Unitarian Universalist
circles labeling happens most often
along the humanist/theist split.
Those who think of themselves as humanists
may be too quick to dismiss someone who
seems to be "just another theist".
Perhaps these dismissers used to believe
in God (in their own youth)
but in adulthood have become militant non-believers.
And because of their bad experience with
a traditional church,
they tend to reject everyone who believes
in God.
It also works the
other way around:
Those who believe in some God may feel themselves
to be in the minority.
So they defensively classify all non-believers
together
as part of the enemy camp.
Even tho there are vast differences within
each 'camp',
every theist or non-theist tends to get
classified as one of "them"
by people who see themselves in a different
group.
If we avoid jumping
to conclusions
based on our experiences with other theists
or non-theists,
then we can let each individual explain
himself or herself completely.
Flame-catchers will
notice labeling
whenever a response starts out by saying
that the author of the cyber-sermon is a
certain kind of person.
When assertions are made about the author,
not based on anything said in the cyber-sermon,
then this might easily be a jumping-to-conclusions
response
by someone whose irritation button
has been pushed.
Sometimes such irritation pops up from
the use of a single word
—such as the word "God".
People who have been the victims of labeling
on previous occasions
usually have learned not to use such 'hot
buttons',
precisely because they do set off a chain
of irrational responses
based on the hearer's past
rather than anything the writer is attempting
to communicate.
Sometimes one person
is a victim of labeling from both sides:
He or she gets labeled a radical by the
conservatives
and a conservative by the liberals.
In such cases both extremes are using labels
to dismiss someone whose ideas they do not
want to examine more deeply.
Labeling is often
a collective behavior:
People get together to decide how to label
a certain individual.
This often leads to several people
adopting a view of someone they do not know
merely because someone they do know
(and trust)
labels that individual in such a such a
way.
The humanist/theist
split could offer many examples of this, once again:
"I heard that so-and-so believes in God."
Or "I was told that so-and-so is a humanist."
Oddly enough, in some cases, both labels
have been used
by different groups of labelers to dismiss
the same individual!
Instead of uncovering the full story about
that individual's belief system,
they have depended on hear-say from others,
who may be just as ill-informed as they
are.
Flame-catchers will
be able to detect labeling
when the responder begins to criticize the
cyber-sermon
on the assumption that the author is either a theist or a non-theist,
even tho nothing about that issue
may have been mentioned in the cyber-sermon.
Labelers may proceed to attack the beliefs
of the group
with which the labeler associates the author.
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