Before the marriage, the man held her hand, walked with her, opened the door for her, called her on the telephone, wrote her romantic notes, sent her flowers, and took her to dinner. But regardless of what a husband is feeling or going through at work or in his financial affairs, his wife needs his attention and affection. They live and act as though they are SINGLE. Husband, learning to share your life with your wife is a skill that must be developed.
She has cleaned the house, taken care of the children, cooked your evening meal, and faced her own challenges throughout the day. And after she is finished telling you every nitty-gritty detail of her day, take the time to tell her about your day! Do things together that you both enjoy so you can keep your relationship fresh and alive. You need to treat your wife like she is the most central, significant, and important partner in your life. If she is assured that she is a top priority in your life and feels secure in her relationship with you, she will gladly follow you and help you wherever God leads.


You will findthat if you don’t plan these times together, all the other responsibilities of your lives and ministry consume you, and in the end, you don’t spend enough quality time together.
But because you both consider your marriage relationship to be the most important relationship in your lives, treat it like it is important and make certain that you spend quality time together on a regular basis. Husband, I urge you to make the decision that you are going to do more than just share the couch, share the table, and share the bed with your wife. Open your heart to her; talk to her like she is your best friend and most important confidant. They will testify how they hurt their wives, and many husbands will have to admit that they were a big factor in their wives becoming bitter and hardhearted. When you invest in your wife, you are investing into your own life.
You see, if you have a happy wife, you can be sure that you’ll have a partner who is with you all the way. So I urge you today to learn how to dwell with your wife according to knowledge. Make sure that from this day forward, you treat your wife like she is a top priority in your life! Your rewards are out of this WORLD!! Lord, I ask You to forgive me for not spending enough time with my wife.


I want to love her as I should and to do everything I can to communicate that love.Please help me, Lord, to become all I need to be for my wife!  I PRAY THIS IN JESUS' NAME     I boldly confess that I am a loving, caring, attentive husband. As God’s Spirit works in me and transforms me more and more into the image of Jesus Christ, I am becoming a better husband to my wife. Therefore, I choose this day to invest love and attentive care into my wife — the most important person in my life! I DECLARE THIS BY FAITH IN JESUS' NAME!   1. Therefore, I choose this day to invest love and attentive care into my wife — the most important person in my life! I DECLARE THIS BY FAITH IN JESUS' NAME!   1.



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