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In this article I am going to reveal this secret to you and will show you how to be attractive to women. Truth is most nice guys would be the dream of any women, but as they have a wrong understanding of attraction and what women really want, they just blow it and the women go for the bad boys. The reason why most nice guys never understand what women see in bad boys is that they have the wrong picture of what attracts women. The nice guys think a woman chooses a guy following logical aspects, which are commonly known as attractive traits.
What these guys eventually do is try to be attractive for a woman by showing her that they combine all this, but instead of feeling attracted a women is scared off by them. A woman doesn’t go for the guy that logically seems to be a better fit just because he combines the traits society calls attractive. The reason is there is usually no chemistry or sexual tension involved and a woman feels nothing for these guys. The bummer about it is that a woman eventually goes for the guy she feels a need to be with, the guy she feels she has some chemistry with.
Giving a woman gifts, pleasing her and showing her what a great catch you are doesn’t trigger attraction. The woman feels a need to be with him and she starts feeling attracted, even though he many times doesn’t possess any so-called ‘attractive traits’.
If you were to stop reading here, the solution would sound as if every man trying to be successful with women should become a bad boy, but this is again far from true.
The only bummer about it is that nice guys usually act submissive and don’t attract her, and as a result many women often stick to the bad boy as nice guys simply don’t get her in the first place. If you want to get a woman, then please don’t try to become a bad boy as this really shouldn’t be your aim.
What you need to learn is the specific traits a bad boy usually combines and which attract women.
He would be the jackpot for any woman – causing sexual tension and at the same time being supportive with a stable life. Do yourself a favor and sign up for my free email course, where I teach you how to become a modern-conservative man, who knows how to build tension between him and the woman of his interest and then how to take things to the next levels. Contrary to popular belief, it takes more than a pretty face and a nice figure for a man to find you attractive. If you’re nervous and unsure of what to say, a great way to connect with someone is to ask them questions. If you are relaxed and focused during your time with with others, they will be more likely to enjoy your company and seek it out again. Nod your head or give short verbal signs (“yes”, “mm hmm”) that acknowledge what the person is saying.
For example, if a guy asks what you think of a movie you didn't like, say what you really think instead of pretending you liked it just because you think he liked it. When you're talking to a guy you're interested in, don't be afraid to reveal a little about what's important to you.
The only good reason for changing who you are is if you are unhappy with who you are, and you want to change so that you’re happier with yourself.

Studies show that other people see you as 20% more attractive than you see yourself.[8] Too many women judge themselves harshly instead of seeing their own beauty. If you’re unsure of what your style is, seek inspiration in fashion icons and the people you look up to.
Find ways to make your best features stand out by choosing certain clothes, accessories and makeup that accentuate them. For example, if you have really pretty dark eyes, wearing gold hoop earrings might draw more attention to them. If you’re trying to attract a man you’ll likely read all sorts of article that tell you what men like, and it will often be things that you don’t have. If you regularly don’t get enough sleep, consider seeing a doctor to see what the problem may be.
When you get out of the shower, apply a body moisturizer to keep all of your skin feeling smooth and soft. You’ll also be more likely to meet men who share your interests and have fun doing the same things you love. If you’re already talking to him, make eye contact at special points in the conversation, like while you're giving him a compliment. You can tailor your smile to the occasion — a brief shy smile to get him interested, or maybe a longer mischievous grin once you’re already talking, to let him know you’re interested too. Schedule the date for a few days later so you both have some time to think about it and get ready.
If you're not quite ready to go on the date, you could just get his number or give him yours. As an example, if he runs his hand through his hair, wait a minute or two then casually do the same, with your other hand though.
Gross but true: If you’re only looking for a brief romantic encounter based on physical attractiveness, one study has shown that men are more attracted to women who appear to be immature, dumb, or drunk. Don’t expect all men to live up to the stereotype — for example, wanting youthful-looking women with small, hourglass figures and high-pitched voices.
The chances are high you will be a so-called ‘wannabe’, who is just plastic and ridiculous to look at, and women will reject you instantly.
If you are a nice ’submissive’ guy and always please women, pursue them and lip-read every wish, then you will have experienced what I have just described above.
Confident people are able to celebrate the success of others without feeling jealous or bad about themselves. If you’re talking to a guy you like (or anybody, for that matter), a surefire way to get them to like you (at the very least, as a friend) is to actively listen to them. Countless romantic comedies are built around someone saying they’re someone they aren’t, and their lie blowing up in their face. It can be fun and even healthy to step outside of your comfort zone — for example, by trying new hobbies or being more social — but always make sure that you’re doing it with a firm sense of who you are and what you want in life. Research shows that while physical elements play a key role in a man’s initial attraction to a woman, other factors are also important.
It doesn't matter what shape you are, what your skin color is, what size you are or how long your hair is: there is beauty in you. You style should be an expression of your personality, rather than a copy of someone else's version of what's attractive. If they feel good, wear them out; if they make you feel like you're playing dress-up, keep experimenting.
Or, if you love your long, slender neck, you could wear V-neck tops or get a shoulder-length haircut that draws the eye to your neck. Much of what attracts men to women is related to a primal instinct wherein their mind views certain features as signalling a better ability to reproduce.

Research has shown that on average, men are more attracted to women’s lips than to any other body part.
Studies have shown that men generally find women with higher-pitched voices more attractive than those with lower-pitched voices. Men will be most attached to a confident woman who is comfortable in her own skin (and voice), but it’s an interesting fact worth knowing. Research shows that on average, men are most attracted to hourglass figures — a small waist and larger hips, which suggest health and fertility.[20] The hourglass shape is the most rare body type, so don’t beat yourself up if you don’t naturally have it. When you hang out with a group of girls, men will generally see individual group members as being more attractive than they actually are. Advice varies depending on what you read, but on average, if you’re trying to stay in shape, you should aim to be active at least 30 minutes a day, every day. Smooth, full lips and straight, white teeth are commonly quoted as being key attractors for men and women. Studies have shown that long, full, shiny hair is most attractive to men as it signifies health and fertility. These are the spots where you feel the most carefree, relaxed, and happy, making you look and feel more attractive.
You’re at your most attractive when you’re relaxed and having fun, so be good at what you do, but don’t take it so seriously that you get angry or mean! Research has shown that happy women, particularly smiling ones, are generally more attractive to men.[30] Make sure your smile is sincere, engaging your eyes and not just your mouth, which can come off as looking fake. If he returns eye contact, asks you questions and seems engaged, keep up the conversation and see where things go. If the conversation goes really well, and it seems like he's reciprocating, you can ask for his number. Don’t be obvious about it, but do mirror the positions and movements that a man takes when he’s talking to you. If you're checking messages, looking for funny pictures and Instagram-ming your meal, your date will begin to wonder whether you even want him there.
It’s said so often it might have lost meaning for you, but it’s true: the most important thing you can do to make yourself more attractive is to think you’re attractive. And the moment she gets this feeling, she uses her mind to justify it and comes up with reasons to convince herself about it. Instead of worrying about what you just said or what might happen next, enjoy the moment you're in. You may be striving to attract a man, but what will help you do that most is to become attractive in your own eyes. This could be something as simple as going for a walk or doing three 10-minute bursts of exercise throughout the day.
Drink enough water and regularly moisturize your lips to keep them smooth, and regularly brush your teeth.
If your teeth are healthy but just a bit stained, clean them up with a whitening toothpaste, or consult your doctor about a whitening treatment. Making eye contact projects confidence, show's you're interested, and makes people weak in the knees.

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