Flirt with her and build up the sexual tension between you so she wants to have sex with you. The secret of how to talk to women on Facebook is to stand out from the crowd by being the sort of guy that a woman wants to talk to and be associated with.
Many women now use Facebook as a screening process to sort out the cool guys from the loners. This is the biggest mistake that I see guys (who are not getting any results with women) making. When talking a woman on Facebook, you must be a masculine guy and not use or copy her girly, cute, feminine style of communication. To get a woman to want to talk to you, she first has to feel attraction for you: Whether you meet a woman in person or online, you first have to spark her attraction for you. No matter what age a woman is, she is always going to be more attracted to guys who go after their true potential in life and do not hide from the world behind an online persona. Some guys put on an act of just wanting to be innocent friends with a woman on Facebook, because they are too afraid of being rejected by her after showing sexual or romantic interest.
The worst thing you can do when talking to women on Facebook is to keep messaging her for weeks and never actually getting her on a phone call.
What to say when you contact a woman via Facebook really depends on whether she is a cold, warm or hot contact. If you spend too much time trying to come up with clever things to say to a woman on Facebook, you will likely end up saying the wrong things or appearing as though you don’t have the guts to talk to her on the phone or in person. These days, an increasing number of men are afraid to approach and talk to women in real life because they develop a warped perception of women by watching too much porn and by believing what they see in music videos, movies and TV drama shows as being how women think and behave in real life. Unfortunately for many guys, talking to women on Facebook is often the only positive female attention they can get. These days, many women are happy to quickly add a guy on Facebook to assess his profile and determine whether he is a cool guy or a lonely guy.
Thanks again for the great article, though to be honest, I prefer talking to women in person rather than online. I love you mate however I disagree with the taking selfie thing lol the one you showed up top yeah ok that looks bad almost Ted Bundyish I think its fine though if you actually acknowledge you are taking a selfie or that it is a bit cheesy or cringe in the tag lines and most importantly you look happy in the photo you are smiling I think that is more important than if you are alone or not.
BTW: You are jumping to a lot of conclusions and missing what I’ve actually written in the article! I didn't know what to say or do to attract women, so I was single and alone for a long time. I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women (100s of success stories here) and I would love to help you too.
One thing I had to decide right away was what to do about the related items that appear after you’ve liked something. Relateds quickly became a problem, because as soon as you like one, Facebook replaces it with another. I was also struck by how different my feeds were on mobile and the desktop, even when viewed at the same time.
But maybe worse than the fractious political tones my feed took on was how deeply stupid it became. Although many guys will feel annoyed at women for being so superficial and wanting to hook up with guys who will make their Facebook profile look cooler, that’s just how a lot of women think these days.
Additionally, my girlfriend (who has her status set to being in a relationship with me) still gets random guys sending her messages like, “Hi!
No matter how much fun she has when talking to you, messaging her too often will result in her losing interest in chatting with you because the novelty of it will wear off and will also make you appear as though you have nothing else going on in your life.
To get a woman to feel attraction for you and want to meet you in person, you need to maintain a balanced life rather than just focusing on her or spending all night chatting to people on Facebook. The best approach to use when talking to women on Facebook is to leave a couple of days gap in between bursts of chatting for 5-10 minutes.
However, being liked as a friend by a woman is not the same as having her feel attraction and desire for you, or making her want to meet you in person and have sex with you. If you wait too long to get her on the phone and organize a time to see each other in person, she will either lose interest in chatting to you or hook up with another guy that she has met in person. I provide my best, tested examples for contacting different types of women on Facebook and then escalating to a phone call so you can set up a date. Then, when she meets a confident guy in real life, she will begin a sexual relationship with him and you will be quickly forgotten. In their everyday life, they are so nervous and self-doubting around women that women don’t show them any interest other than just being friendly. She will happily go out on dates and have sex with guys who don’t hide behind Facebook or text messages and simply get her on a date and then escalate to sex. I know its pointless engaging in slagging matches online but sometimes I don’t want to let it go and take the high ground lol some women do deserve to be taken down a peg or two at times. Now if you’re not confident enough you can easily start doubting yourself whether your reply was good or not. In addition, the fact is that she might be busy, not know what to say, wanting to test your interest level or checking to see if you will become desperate. I have a question regarding text-messages via mobile-phones and instant-messaging on Facebook etc. So therefore I go through a lot of unnecessary thinking which gets very tiresome, so it would be great to know with more certainty which strategy I should use, and also why.
But the full quote, taken from a 1963 interview in Art News, is a great description of how we interact on social media today.
Not only are they ego-feeders for the stuff we put online as individuals, but advertisers track their campaigns on Facebook by how often they are liked. After checking in and liking a bunch of stuff over the course of an hour, there were no human beings in my feed anymore. It reminded me of what can go wrong in society, and why we now often talk at each other instead of to each other. I tried counting how much stuff I’d liked by looking in my activity log, but it was too overwhelming. A woman wants to see that if she hooks up with you, she will have opportunities to get great photos posted to her Facebook wall. Loneliness is not attractive to women, so if you want to use Facebook to talk to women, make sure you don’t post up your lonely moments in life. Women are attracted to a man’s masculinity and turned off when a guy is too feminine in his approach, behavior and thinking. When you behave like a girl or like a little boy on Facebook, women feel as much attraction for you as you feel for butch lesbians.
However, your number one goal should always be to get her on the phone and then arrange to see her in person. For a woman to want to be more than “just friends” with you, she needs to feel sexually attracted to you and the bottom line is if you’re just being a sweet, friendly guy who only wants “to talk” online, she will enjoy the attention while she goes out in real life and has sex with a real guy.
When you talk to a woman on the phone, she will feel attraction for you more rapidly than via Facebook messages because she will able to experience your confident, charismatic personality and feel great when you make her laugh.
Facebook is a new way of communicating for humans and if you want to use it to meet women, you should only use it as a way to get a woman’s phone number and then set up a date. You might be a very confident, self-assured and even witty guy when you’re talking to women online, but if you’re lost for words, anxious and insecure on a phone call or date, she will be looking to get away from you as fast as possible without hurting your feelings too much. Yet, little do many of these guys know, just because a woman talks to him online and ends her messages with smiley faces LOLs!!!! It may be superficial of women to want to associate themselves with cool guys who can add some value to their life, but that’s just how women are behaving these days.

I've already helped thousands of guys to achieve instant success with women and I would love to help you too. However, I have to say this for your benefit: The level of understanding you have at the moment is amateur. What you’ve failed to acknowledge and likely failed to realize is that your friend would have killed it with women if there was no Facebook or Instagram. Some women chat with many men on Facebook with absolutely NO plans to ever hook up with the guy in person. A recent New York Times story on a krill oil ad campaign lays bare how much the like matters to advertisers.
In 2014 the News Feed is a highly-curated presentation, delivered to you by a complicated formula based on the actions you take on the site, and across the web. My feed become a cavalcade of brands and politics and as I interacted with them, Facebook dutifully reported this to all my friends and followers.
The same applies when talking to women on Facebook: They are not going to feel attracted to you if you behave like a girl.
I hope he messages me!” and when she doesn’t hear from you, you want her to feel disappointed and as though she is missing out because you’re probably out somewhere having a great time without her.
However, if you just message her all the time, she will be less-likely to feel any sort of attraction for you and may even feel turned off by your communication style.
I decided to embark on a campaign of conscious liking, to see how it would affect what Facebook showed me. If there is nothing going on in your life according to your Facebook photos and posts, most modern women aren’t going to feel super excited to be associated with you as a lover or girlfriend on Facebook. Women feel attraction to a guy’s masculine behavior, thinking, actions and communication style, so if you can display that when you talk to a woman on Facebook, she will be much more interested in talking to you and seeing you in person. More often than not she is just enjoying the attention and is also talking to and being pursued by many guys online at the same time. When you add women on Facebook, you want them to look at your profile and think, “Wow, this guy is cool. I know this sounds like a stunt (and it was) but it was also genuinely just an open-ended experiment. I mean, I don’t truly like Living Social either, whatever the hell that is, but who cares. On that little bitty screen, where real-estate is so valuable, Facebook’s robots decided that the way to keep my attention is by hiding the people and only showing me the stuff that other machines have pumped out. I have a big crush on her!!” Posting like a girl will never, ever make a woman feel attraction for you.
So, don’t behave like a girl on Facebook or you will be as unattractive to women as those butch lesbians are to you. The only guys who can post up status updates like a girl and get laughs and women feeling more attraction for him as a result, is a guy who is a confident, alpha male in real life. So I settled on a new rule: I would like the first four relateds Facebook shows me, but no more.
If you’re a nervous, shy guy who lacks masculinity in real-life interactions and then you post up things on Facebook like a girl would, you will turn women off you even more.
By changing your relationship status, it will be letting all your friends know that you two just broke up and attract a lot of unwanted comments and questions.
You DO NOT need that!However, I am not saying that just leave it unchanged even after your ex has publicly changed their relationship on Facebook. Eventually, I would hear from someone who worked at Facebook, who had noticed my activity and wanted to connect me with the company’s PR department. I get it that you are still feeling sad and depressed over your recent breakup or even if your breakup was years ago. Stop blaming your ex and start finding out what was the problem and think about what you can do to improve before you try to get back with your ex.4.
It is very good to start going to the gym and lose some of the weight you have been wanting to get rid of since forever.It will not only help make you more fit, but also help you stay energetic and positive.
That will show your ex that you are doing well after the breakup and you are the same fun loving person your ex fell in love with. Seeing these photos might bring back a lot of good memories and fun times your ex had with you and thus make your ex miss you.3.
Meet new people and go on a few dates.Again post lots and lots of photos of you having fun.
A healthy amount of jealousy might be of some help in getting back with your ex.Remember, whether it is guy or girl, we get jealous very easily. However if your ex does contact you, you must be fully prepared for the call and not sound needy or desperate.4. Post positive status updates and funny stuff you recently came across.Nothing negative, even if you find yourself really missing your ex and feeling horrible. Time to focus on your passion again.When you were dating, your life was mostly revolved around just your partner and you started doing less things that you were passionate about or completely stopped doing it.
Now is the time to start focusing on you and things that you love to you.Post photos or status updates about it.
I’m still in love with him but i know that he is not right for me and that he will continue to hurt me if I try to go back to him.
I finally got my marriage annuled after 2 years (we don’t have divorce in my country) and was waiting for him to fix his end. I don’t know if I can resist it if he sends me text messages or would call me in the future.
I believe that we are good friends too, but I don’t think I can deal with any communication with him as yet.
We started off as friends over a year ago and one thing led to another as they sometimes do.
As things progressed we started going out more, but the problem being I work with him and no one at work knew, so it became awkward where I didnt want people knowing about us.
Two days before we broke up he was still talking marriage and took me to look at a place he wanted to buy.
I went on vacation recently for ten days to California, talking to her literally everyday non stop, with both texting and phone calls. She would tell me how much she missed me and how she loved me to death and we would talk through the night about our days, our pasts and where we were going from here. She even would break down and tell me how much she loves and how I’m amazing and that I am all she needs because she knows what an amazing guy I am for her.
She was very sexual as well, telling me all sorts of things she would want to do to me when I come home and how she missed me so much.The day I got back there was all this pent up energy and we had previously discussed about sex in vivid detail, and I wanted to make sure with her that we were both ready which was very scary for both of us because of our relationship pasts. I got to her apartment and she was all over me bringing me into the bedroom and making out with me and taking off her clothes.
And an hour later she was in tears saying how sorry she was and how awful she felt to be breaking my heart, and proceeded to drive me home. She cried the whole way to my house telling me how sick she feels with what she’s just told me and everything and how she still loves me and cares for me but this is the best thing in the long run.
There was no cheating involved, rather I had resentment over him breaking up with me and I took him back so easily.
At first it was easy to start getting over her but a couple weeks ago my world started to crumble when she told me how she had sex with someone else & she likes him.
And when we break up he always sounds 100 adament this can never work and is absolutely over…Anyway this time he is all over facebook. I cried, I felt that my ex was the only one who I could have an intimate and close relationship, regardless of how much he deceived me.

And he was like well I really hope so because I’d like to see you and fingers crossed. Out the night after apparently and just kissed the first person he could (close knit group of friends is how I know all this).
It talks about the man controlled by his mother and the affect this has on his relationships with other women.
On Friday I texted him and said that I dont know hwta I did to him for him to act this way and that he needs to talk to me because I am trying. I then said I am trying my best to help you and make you feel good but you made me feel sick to my stomach by not contacting me.
He then continued to tell me that the thought of marriage made him uncomfortable (his father cheated when he was younger) and he cant give me what I want.
Then after those two days of lots of crying and talking on both of our parts, he takes me home one night and I just knew. I tried to ask what was going on and he just said i don’t know why im doing this i just need to do this and I need to be alone.
He on the other hand had difficulty but ultimately I could tell when I did something wrong and tried to talk about it with him.Anyways. I talked with his brother who is one of my best friends and he said that my ex just seemed completely detached from his emotions and he hadn’t talked about it. I admit we needed this,we were very codependent and i now know I need to focus on improving myself. We talked last night just about his trip- he responded to everything i said except the last text (which i assumed he fell asleep) then i texted him in the morning saying i hope he has a nice day with family. I asked if he is done with my forever and he said he doesn’t know what will happen down the road but right now he needs space. I was absolutely heartbroken, I only regret not sorting things out prior and maybe talking instead of becoming comfortable. Despite her young age, culturally (TV, movies, life) she is very mature and articulate – she calls herself a 40 year old woman in a 20 year old body.
We fell in love by talking to each other every day while she was away on a month long family vacation, so we were in love before we even kissed or had sex. My feeling was, after three plus years, she should know how much I feel and care and shouldn’t need to be reassured.
A friend of mine said I could have “lived inside her bra” and it wouldn’t have made a difference.Assuming this is yet another temporary breakup, I let it sit for a while, and didn’t allow myself to get upset over it. She has also lost 70 pounds, which is fantastic as well.Here’s where it all turns……A week into classes, she is asked out by a guy a year younger than her.
Thus, I start dating another girl, and my ex immediately breaks down and says we cannot talk anymore, it’s too hard for her to see me with someone else. She changes her Facebook photo to her and him (relationship is two weeks old at this point). I cave and reach out just to say hello, and she responds, and we start talking like we always have, but with our significant others hovering over like an elephant in the room. My ex keeps dropping hints about how she misses me, will sometimes say she wants to hang out, wants me there with her, etc.
But she still goes to see the new guy, keeps staying with him, sleeping with him, all of that. And she knows I’m seeing someone, and it drives HER nuts.The relationship with the new guy is centered around the classes they have together. Apparently, they won’t have any classes together after December, so let’s see if the relationship changes.According to her, new guy doesn’t call or text much, and she has to ask him to do things. She starts confiding in me that she doesn’t know if it’s going to work out with him, that she doesn’t like his lack of effort (remember, she is used to me being there daily). I tell her to sit down and talk to him about these things, but she says she isn’t comfortable with him yet.
Last week, I went on another date with a different girl, a girl I’ve known even before my ex, and my ex is furious, accuses me of liking the new girl all along, and to never speak to her again. I send her an e-mail that my door is always open if she needs to talk (probably a mistake), and that was a day ago, and she hasn’t responded.It’s all such a mess. I feel like my ex’s behavior is completely absurd, considering how she broke up with me, started seeing and sleeping with someone else, and then gets mad at me for trying to date as well, as if the only thing I’m supposed to do is sit there and be miserable until she is single again. She will calm down and start talking to me again (saying I’m the only person on earth she feels completely comfortable with), but still sees her new guy, who she complains about to me.
I also feel hurt that she is seeing a guy who (my opinion) poses no real future for her, and is doing the same things that caused her to break up with me, and is seemingly getting a free pass on all of it. And it has only been a MONTH, not four years.I think the hardest thing for me to understand in all of this is how she, the insecure, quiet girl with only one boyfriend and sexual partner (me), can so easily jump into bed with another guy without even knowing him. Granted, she would have issues with ANYTHING, but still.I’m not looking for reconciliation, but I do miss talking to her. I wouldn’t be able to do it so easily, and I don’t have the self-esteem issues that she does. What bugs me the most is that she acts like this is all so natural (“He asked ME out, I wasn’t looking for this….this is how it works!
But of course I want to reach out to her, but feel that I will get a “we can’t talk anymore” response. We had a great time together (at least I thought so) and I’m extremely confused so I just think writing this down and talking it out would help me.
During the course of our time together, he frequently talked about me converting and I know he viewed the relationship as a serious one with all of the potential to become extremely serious in the future. However, every time I got to come home for break we would spend as much time together as possible, and throughout my stay at school, he called me every single day whenever he cold and we were always in constant communication via text or phone call. It was over the stupidest reason ever: the fact that while he had a plan post college, I was still trying to figure out mine. He is the type to not say what is bothering him at first and takes a bit to get over an argument but I kno exactly when something is wrong.
So, after we fought, we kept fighting over it for about 3 or 4 days and I feared we would break up all because I hadn’t figured out a career plan yet. I left for a cruise the next week, but beforehand he told me how upset he was that we wouldn’t even be able to communicate for an entire week. When I got back home last week, I turned my phone on to a text from him saying how upset he had been that I hadn’t been home, and how much he really missed me a lot.
Someone he knew was asking us both how we met and about the relationship, and his responses included how he obviously had been waiting to date someone like me and how I was the person to take his mind off his first heartbreak years before. Later that night, he wasn’t talking as much and I realized he must have been thinking about the meeting.
I never for a second even now would doubt that he loves me, but I don’t understand how things changed so fast all because of my lack of having a plan when he knew I was working on it. After it ended, I was the first to change my relationship status on Facebook, and was devastated by the thought that I might never hear from him again. The next morning, he deleted me off Instagram, and untagged pictures on Facebook although we were still friends. I understand now how controlling he was and how his actions made no sense, but the thought of him moving on and being with someone else right now kills me. I never got the chance to yell at her or tell her how much this hurts me or what she has done.

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