Young adults who would like to get married naturally start looking for love in the community they live in, but in some parts of the country, the odds may be against them. But even in these top metro areas, young women may find it difficult to find a young single man with a job. A smaller pool of employed men may not be good news for young women who are looking for a man with a job, but it could be good news for young single men. Denver may have a lot of young unmarried men, but that doesn’t mean they are marriage minded.
It would be nice if these studies were broken down by age and race, because there are huge age and racial disparities in many towns. But the biggest problem is, you’ve already said that only 53% of singles are looking to get married, so it doesn’t matter which cities have the most singles! Nowadays pretty much only Indians get married, but I don’t know whether their women are chaste either.
The premise of this article stereotypes women as being more interested in marriage than men are. Once race is taken into account, the bottom line is that due to the immigration invasion that we have experienced in the past two decades, which has come primarily from Asian countries and India, if you, as most Caucasian women do [and apparently the Asian women as well, who keep pursuing our Caucasian males with a hunter’s single-minded determination, thus leaving us with few to none of our own males (but the Indian women pair up with their own Indian males almost exclusively)], you will be quite lonely and alone, with no romantic life and no male companionship whatsoever, particularly if you are in the 45 and up age group. So, African-American women (and the majority over the age of 30 have a Master’s degree) are finding it also a bit rough because the women of ALL ethnic groups are giving it up so freely. Sorry that I have to say but ladies from State they don’t know to appreciate a good man. I think now that gay marriage is becoming legal that these statistics will be more accurate. It’s hard for either sex to find someone that they can love and live with for the rest of their lives.
I’ve had some long term relationships but none were as wonderful as my best friend that I married.
With all due respect, I believe your statistic of 128 single men to 100 single ladies in Orlando is inaccurate. As family historians16 have noted, observations about the fragility of marriage are as old and universal as marriage itself—meaning they’ve been around for thousands of years and permeated virtually every culture and corner of the globe. The survey reveals other intriguing cross-currents in the public’s attitudes about marriage.
Even as public opinion embraces the ideal of spousal equality, however, it still hasn’t given up the seemingly contradictory notion that men—far more than women—need to be good providers in order to be good marriage prospects.
If economic security is no longer a key reason people marry, the lack of economic security nonetheless appears to be a key reason people don’t get married. The 2010 Pew Research survey finds that among the unmarried, there are no significant differences by education or income in the desire to get married; just under half of the college educated (46%) and those who have a high school diploma or less (44%) would like to get married. But the survey also finds that the less education and income people have, the more likely they are to say that in order to be a good marriage prospect, a person must be able to support a family financially. Not all of the survey findings are harbingers of gloom and doom for the institution of marriage. Moreover, marriage may have been more prevalent a generation ago, but most married or cohabiting respondents today believe their own relationship compares favorably with their parents’.
A majority of adults believe that in many key realms of life—such as finding happiness, getting ahead in a career or having social status—it doesn’t make any difference whether a person is married or single. For example, when it comes to being financially secure, 35% of respondents believe this is easier to do as a married person, while 11% say it is easier for a single person and half say it makes no difference. The remainder of this chapter examines all of these questions in depth and explores the demographic patterns in attitudes and behaviors related to marriage.
In addition, respondents who doubt the durability of marriage appear to include a mix of those who are comfortable with the change and those who are troubled by it. Among the demographic groups most likely to agree that marriage is becoming obsolete are the young (44% of 18- to 29-year-olds say this), blacks (44%), those who have a high school diploma or less (45%) and those whose annual income is less than $30,000 (48%).
These differences come into sharper focus when one looks specifically at respondents’ marital status. But it’s not just those who are living out alternative arrangements to marriage who say that the institution is becoming obsolete.
In short, blacks are the racial group most inclined to consider financial security a prerequisite to marriage. Love is the leading reason people cite for getting married—and this is true both among those who are married (93% say it is very important) and those who aren’t (84% say the same). There are differences by income, education, race, gender and family status in many of these evaluations. A majority of the public thinks that in many realms of life, it doesn’t make any difference if a person is married or single. Among the minority who say marital status does make a difference, most think being married is preferable for all realms, except for getting ahead in a career.
Men are also more likely than women to say that it is easier for a single person to be financially secure (16% vs.
Adults who have never been married say being single is preferable to being married when it comes to getting ahead in a career (32% vs. Race Some 82% of whites say it is easier for a married person to raise a family, compared with 64% of blacks and 68% of Hispanics. Whites are more inclined than blacks to say it is easier for a married person to be financially secure (37% vs. AgeThe advantages of being married versus being single are viewed somewhat differently by people of different ages, especially in three areas: getting ahead in a career, having social status and having a fulfilling sex life.

Among all currently unmarried adults, about half (46%) want to get married, 29% are not sure and 25% don’t want to marry.
Regardless of whether they are divorced or widowed, men are more likely than women to say that they want to get married again. The youngest generation has the strongest desire to marry, a reflection of their stage in the life cycle. About half (51%) of all respondents who are married or cohabiting with a partner say their relationship is closer than that of their parents, while 43% say it is about the same and only 5% say it is less close. Not surprisingly, even bigger differences emerge when controlling for the marital and divorce history of respondents’ parents. Meantime, fully 96% of married adults who believe in only one true love say they’ve found theirs, compared with 61% of all unmarried adults and 79% of cohabiters. Since none of us are married or planning on getting married in the near future, some friends of mine are planning to start a commune. But apart from a shift in how we view marriage, there's also an imbalance created by economic trends and changing demographics that plays into why this is happening.
Although both are almost twice as likely as before to not be married, men are still more likely to be in this group than women. Men are still less likely ever to get married, but the gap between men and women has increased. All races seem to demonstrate a desire to get married roughly equally, says Wang, but the proportion of black Americans who never married is rising sharply.
When Pew asked people why they haven't married, the most common answers where that a) they hadn't found the ideal person and b) they didn't feel ready financially (each response made up about 27 percent of the total and varied by age). A new Pew Research Center analysis finds pronounced differences in the ratio between men and women living in the largest U.S. For women seeking a male partner with a job, our analysis found that San Jose, Calif., tops the list among large metro areas, with 114 single employed men for every 100 single women. The assumptions underpinning all of this are insulting to everyone EXCEPT single women looking for a male bank account to fund their own family-related ambitions. As noted in the overview of this report, 50 years ago there was virtually no difference by socio-economic status in the proclivity to marry: 76% of college graduates and 72% of adults who did not attend college were married in 1960.
Likewise, roughly similar shares of the unmarried who earn above and below $100,000 a year would like to marry.
Taken together, these findings suggest that those with less income and education are opting out of marriage not because they don’t value the institution or aspire to it benefits, but because they may doubt that they (or a potential spouse) can meet the standards they impose on marriage.
However, among those who believe it does make a difference, most say that being married is better. Similar patterns emerge for having a fulfilling sexual life, finding happiness and having social status. All of these groups are less likely than their demographic opposites (older, white, college educated, higher income) to be married—and thus their judgments could well be shaped to some degree by their life experiences. Just 31% of married adults agree that marriage is becoming obsolete, compared with 46% of all unmarried adults, 58% of all single parents and 62% of all cohabiting (but unmarried) parents. Back in 1977, survey respondents were nearly equally divided between those who said marriages are more satisfying when the husband earns an income and the wife takes care of the household and children (43%) and those who said marriages work best when both spouses have jobs and both take care of the household and children (48%).
Among male respondents, 70% say a man who is about to marry must be able to support a family, while just 27% say the same about a woman. Fully 88% of black respondents (compared with 62% of whites and 77% of Hispanics) say that in order to be ready for marriage, a man must be able to support a family financially.
Fewer than one-third of adult blacks (32%) are currently married, compared with half of Hispanics and 56% of whites, according to Census Bureau data. College graduates are more likely than those without a college degree to be married these days (64% vs.
Only about three-in-ten respondents say this is very important for a man (32%) or a woman (28%). For example, blacks and Hispanics are roughly twice as likely as whites to say it is very important that a spouse (be it a man or a woman) be well educated,  be good at household chores and provide a good income (at least for a woman). Whites and Hispanics are somewhat more likely than blacks to say love is a very important reason to get married.
Eight-in-ten divorcees think making a lifelong commitment is a very important reason to get married, compared with about seven-in-ten in the other two groups.
Men are somewhat more likely than women to view companionship as very important to marriage (76% vs.
About six-in-ten say this about having social status (64%), finding happiness (62%) and getting ahead in a career (57%).
Men are much more likely than women to say that it is easier for a married person to find happiness (38% vs. People who are currently married or who have ever been married say it is easier for a married person in five of the six realms tested.
The two minority groups are more likely than whites to say that when it comes to raising a family, it doesn’t matter if you are single or married. Younger people are more likely to say these aspirations are easier to fulfill for a single person, while older people are more likely to say it is easier for a married person to achieve these goals. The desire to marry is much more prevalent among those who are single (58%) and those who are living with a partner (64%) than it is among those who are divorced20 (29%) or widowed (8%). Unmarried adults who do not have children are more likely than those who have children to say they want to get married (58% vs.
About seven-in-ten (69%) unmarried 18- to 29-year-olds say that they want to get married, compared with 44% of those who are ages 30 to 49, 31% of those who are 50 to 64 and 6% of those who are 65 or older.

The unmarried (never married or cohabiters) living in the South are most likely to say they want to get married (71%), compared with people who live in the East (49%), the West (53%) and the Midwest (60%). Among married or cohabiting respondents whose parents divorced, fully 76% say their relationship is closer than their parents’. 46%) describe their marital or cohabiting relationship as closer than that of their parents.
Before, 10 percent of men and 8 percent of women were never married, whereas now it's 23 percent men versus 17 percent women. Among whites and Hispanics, the proportion of adults who never married is double what it was in 1960.
Often, answering with a quick "at some point" is a good way to avoid follow-up questions—that's what a little over half of the never-married answered in Pew's survey (which is down from 2010, when 61 percent said they'd like to get married eventually). Looking at the most recently available census data, we explored the demographics of the “marriage market” based on what women said they want in a spouse. But when we limit the young men to those who are currently employed, the ratio falls to 84 employed single men for every 100 single women. At least in Fl, the married men who slip off their ring have a telltale tan line on their finger.
Asked to evaluate the reasons they got married, married respondents place the greatest value on love (93% say this is a very important reason), followed by making a lifelong commitment (87%), companionship (81%), having children (59%), and, at the bottom of the list, financial stability (31%).
Only in recent centuries have love and mutual self-fulfillment come to occupy center stage in the grand marital bargain.
By 2008, that small gap had widened to a chasm: 64% of college graduates were married, compared with just 48% of those with a high school diploma or less. A plurality of 46% of those who are not married say they would like to marry, while three-in-ten (29%) say they are not sure. The two outliers from this pattern are raising a family (fully 77% say this is easier for a married person) and getting ahead in a career (just 14% say this is easier for a married person, compared with 24% who say it is easier for a single person). Likewise, 50% of black respondents (compared with 47% of Hispanics and 28% of whites) say that a woman must be able to support a family financially in order to be ready for marriage. In addition, nearly four-in-ten divorcees (37%) view financial stability as a very important reason for getting married, compared with 22% of those who live with a partner and 27% of singles.
For example, about one-third of 18- to 29-year-olds (34%) say it is easier for a single person to get ahead in a career, while just 13% of those ages 65 and older agree. There are no significant gender differences in marriage intention among the Millennial generation (18- to 29-year-olds). Among these same respondents whose parents were married, just 46% say their relationship is closer. And even though most Americans tend say they don't necessarily want to marry someone of the same race, the reality is that they do (85 percent of marriages in the U.S.
Over half (57%) of young adults ages 25 to 34 in the metro area, which includes Sunnyvale and Santa Clara, were single in 2012. But if you want a serious relationship, with the goal of marriage, you’re better off somewhere else. Unmarried adults order the reasons the same way when asked to evaluate why they would consider getting married. And among those in this group who are married, 96% say they’ve found theirs—meaning that virtually all are either deeply committed or very careful with their words. Looking at the share of those who have never married, about one-third (32%) of adults with some college education and 29% of those with a high school education or less have never married, compared with just 21% of adults with a college education. They are also more likely than women to say that financial stability is a very important reason to get married (34% vs.
Men are also more likely than women to say it is easier for a married person to raise a family (80% vs. In fact, the never married are more likely than the ever married to say  that marital status makes no difference to having a fulfilling sexual life (57% vs. There are also differences among unmarried parents: Only 27% of divorced parents want to get married, compared with nearly six-in-ten of cohabiting parents and 56% of single (never-married) parents.
In 1960, 17% of adult blacks and 14% of adult whites were never married—a gap of just 3 percentage points.
And while half of blacks and 46% of Hispanics say that financial stability is a very important reason to marry, only a quarter of whites say the same. The majority of both men and women say there is no difference between being married or single in most of the realms tested.
Though the shares are small, more blacks than whites say it is easier for a single person to find happiness (10% vs.
Now days beauty is simply not enough (look at how many beautiful women George Clooney lived with and who he ended up with). They are also more likely than the ever married to say being single or married doesn’t make a difference in raising a family (27% vs.
Just because a man is wealthy does not mean he’s going to share that wealth with you, which is why they simply shack up, not marry, or get a prenup prior to marriage. Hispanics are the most likely of any racial or ethnic group to say it is easier for a single person to be financially secure (18%), compared with 9% of whites and 11% of blacks. I’m getting married for the 3rd time in a few days, to a man who is not college educated but who treats me more like a queen than my previous financially secure, college educated, handsome, husbands.

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