Recently, a guy contacted me and asked, “Dan, I’m good looking, but can’t get a girlfriend. I would love to personally reply to everyone, but it’s physically impossible to be an email buddy to 100s of new guys every week and still have time to make posts and videos for the site and live my life. There are some women who will only ever accept an extremely good looking guy for a boyfriend, lover or husband. The majority of women have what I call an Open Type, which means that they are open to being with many different types of guys (in terms of looks, race, financial status, height, weight, etc) as long as the guy can make her feel attracted and drawn to him in other ways. In the human species, it is the woman who gets dressed up, wears make up and tries to look as physically appealing as possible to be selected by the best males for her appearance. Many modern men have become confused with all the advertising messages they see on TV, which show men being adored and lusted after for being good looking, having six-pack abs or wearing the latest fashions. They have been led to believe that if they just look good enough, women will approach them like female actors do in Hollywood movies and TV shows. If you go through life trying to get women to select you based on looks, you will be dancing the wrong mating dance.
Most guys don’t realize how easy it is to attract a beautiful woman because most guys approach and hit on her in the wrong way. Imagine for a moment that you’re at a social event with a hundred other guys and one beautiful woman walks in. Yet, approximately 95 out of 100 of them wouldn’t really care whether or not she has a nice personality, is intelligent or has good long term potential as a girlfriend or wife. The beautiful woman in the room knows that she can have any one of those hundred guys if she really wants to…and that’s just so boring for her. If a woman is beautiful or at least decent looking, all she has to do is dress a little sexy, put on some makeup and do her hair and she can have pretty much any guy she wants.
We men want to find a beautiful looking woman because that is what is important in terms of feeling proud of her, having beautiful children and feeling a continued attraction to her physical appearance, long enough to procreate.
If she meets an average or below-average looking guy who can attract her in more important ways and make her feel the way that she truly wants to feel when with a guy, then she will be a winner in life for being with him.
You may have even heard women saying that they only like handsome men or that they will only go out with a very good-looking guy. You will go away from my site today and you will see evidence of what I am talking about EVERYWHERE. You will overhear a beautiful woman talking about how much she loves a guy and he will NOT be good looking like a model. You will see beautiful women walking along with a boyfriend or husband and the guy will not be a good-looking man.
You may think that women are stupid, brainless or mad for not seeing that you’re a good looking guy and then rushing to be with you. Almost everyone you meet won’t understand attraction and will believe what they get told in the media or what people SAY rather than what people do.
When you understand how to attract women, you see that most guys just don’t get it and are walking through life feeling insecure about their looks and hoping to be chosen by women like a Pretty Peacock.


You will then notice that a very small percentage of guys don’t play the Pretty Peacock game and effortlessly attract women with their personality, behavior and communication style. Attraction is the feeling that a person gets in response to features and qualities of another person. It gets drummed into their head that they are good looking and they grow up expecting to have women flock to them.
Some good looking guys grow up and are confident, masculine and know how to talk to women in a way that turns them on.
Yet, not all good-looking guys are truly confident or masculine (in their thinking, behavior and actions) and most don’t even know how to turn a woman on during a conversation.
A good looking guy can definitely attract a woman with his looks initially, but that doesn’t mean the woman will continue to feel attracted to him once they begin talking.
In my training programs (ebook, audio and video formats) here at The Modern Man, I teach guys how to attract women in more than 100 different ways. Not all beautiful women will accept an ugly or average looking guy who is confident, but many will because most women have what I call an Open Type, meaning that they are open to being with many different types of guys as long as the guy can make her feel a sufficient amount of attraction for other reasons. Many guys make the mistake of thinking that being masculine is only about being tall, having a buff body or a full head of thick hair. To survive, thrive and prosper in this world, it’s important to be able to get along with others and communicate in a way that makes people respect you and like you. A woman might think that you look good, but if she talks to you and you don’t feel good, it will quickly begin to turn her off.
One of my female friends once told me that she was introduced to a really good looking guy through friends and everyone was so excited for them to meet because she was beautiful and he was a 6ft 3inch tall handsome guy with a perfect gym body. That same girl is now married to a scruffy looking guy that she met in a bar and she has moved from the city out to a farmhouse that they recently got a mortgage on together. Some good looking guys will see them together and think that she is making a mistake by being with him or she is selling out, but she isn’t.
When a woman feels attracted to a guy for many reasons OTHER than looks, she will actually come to really like his looks…even if he doesn’t look like a good looking guy. Guys who are good looking and who also know how to attract women in other ways will find it extremely easy to have sex with beautiful women, get a beautiful girlfriend or wife. However, guys aren’t good looking, but who know how to attract women in other ways can have just as easy access to beautiful women. You can learn this stuff now before other guys find out about my techniques and start using them to attract the women you want.
I’ve already helped 1000s of guys become successful with women with my simple to use techniques and I can help you too.
When I created the controversial attraction techniques that I now teach here at The Modern Man, beautiful women began flooding into my life and I've enjoyed my choice of women ever since. I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women (100s of success stories here) and I would love to help you too. Such women will reject every guy who doesn’t appear to be good looking according to her standards.


Most women are seeking more important, useful traits in a man such as confidence, the ability to make her laugh, potential to do well in life, the ability to make her feel girly in response to his masculinity, the ability to be respected by other men and get along with people in general. She knows that men are attracted to her because of her looks, so for her, getting a guy is not a challenge. Most guys react to their feelings of attraction and show 100% interest in her immediately or pretend not to be interested, but she can tell that they are.
If she is beautiful, most guys will instantly like her and they will hope to be chosen by her for looking good (e.g.
She wants a man who can make her feel attracted in longer lasting ways, rather than just the fleeting feelings of initial physical attraction that she may feel for a good looking guy. The good-looking guy is always surrounded by beautiful women and it seems like that is how it is supposed to be; beautiful people with beautiful people.
Women DO say that sort of thing, but it doesn’t mean that they cannot feel intensely attracted to average or below-average looking men for other reasons. Maybe their mothers, sisters, relatives and friends tell them how good they are going to be with the ladies when they grow up. All those compliments you got as a child and young man about being handsome and good looking suddenly came into question. Most men are not rich and most men only have an average-sized penis, yet they still manage to get a girlfriend or wife or have sex with many beautiful women. Other guys looking on won’t understand why women feel so attracted to you, but you will. Yet, a guy who looks good, but is fairly weak emotionally means that she will have to carry him through life and protect him (emotionally) during challenging times.
He’s a good guy alpha male, which is the type of alpha male that people respect and admire and that women lust after and then fall madly in love with.
However, if you choose to remain in the dark about attraction, it will continue to feel like one of the most difficult, frustrating, depressing things that you ever have to deal with in your life. If you want to stop saying to yourself, “I’m good looking, but can’t get a girlfriend,” then let me help you right now. Women are looking for more useful traits in a man than just a pretty face or perfectly sculpted gym body. Getting women to compete over you makes the process of picking up 10x easier, but most guys simply don’t know how to do it.
I've already helped thousands of guys to achieve instant success with women and I would love to help you too.
After experiencing the same thing her entire life where guys are hoping to get a chance with her simply based on her looks, she develops a need for a guy who makes her feel lucky to have been chosen by him.



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