04.10.2014

Women in their 50s and pregnancy

There are many reasons why some women opt for an abortion - including birth abnormalities in the baby, which are more common when the mothers are older.
Women aged 30 to 34 continue to have the highest fertility rate - 113.1 live births per 1,000 women.
Last week, while flipping channels I came across an entry in the guide called 70 & Pregnant on The Learning Channel (TLC).
I had my first daughter a few months before I turned 34 which is nine years older than the average first time mom in this country but not really considered old by anyone’s standard and completely normal for New York City where I was living at the time. She goes on to cite a substantial amount of research suggesting that older parents are less stressed, more engaged, and less likely to employ a nanny.
Additional research has found that women who have children after the age of 40 are four times more likely to live to 100 than those who did not.
While some argue that giving birth after 50 is clearly unnatural because many women have to be brought out of menopause to do so, Perl believes that menopause is an antiquated biological concept. The risks to a pregnant woman over 35 are also greater including gestational diabetes (which increase the likelihood of diabetes after pregnancy), pre-eclampsia, and high blood pressure. These risks to her own health are certainly one of the things that has made me question the decision of older mothers.
So Miller made good points but even after I read her article I still felt uneasy about pregnant 50-year-olds and senior citizens at parent-teacher conferences. The special, which originally aired a couple of years ago, began with the story of Lauren Cohen, a New York woman who had her first child at 58 and then twins at 60. The second story followed Sue in the United Kingdom who at 57 was considering a second round of IVF to give her 2-year-old daughter Freya a sibling.
The final story is one that made headlines a few years ago when a 70-year-old woman from a rural part of India gave birth to a healthy daughter. Though I can tell you with a reasonable amount of certainty that my childbearing days are over and that I will not be pregnant at 48, 58, or 68, these women made me reconsider my judgment of those who are.  After all, the same argument I have often made about gay couples becoming parents is true of older parents—not one of these couples got pregnant by accident.
Take the Time to Stay Healthy Through Menopause You may be 50 or older, but you don't have to feel like you're over the hill. Although fertility does wane, women can still get pregnant well into their thirties, forties and even fifties.
But FPA says its anecdotal evidence suggests some of the abortions are because women wrongly assumed they could not get pregnant because they were too old. It seemed unbelievably unfair to the child who had a much higher chance of being orphaned before adulthood or worse spending their childhood taking care of elderly parents. There were plenty of mothers in my neighborhood who were older than me and I didn’t blink twice when friends had babies at 41 or even 44, but I admit to being prejudiced against those who had babies later than that. I judged the married psychiatrists who at 60 and 66 are parenting seven- and ten-year-old girls “with a rotating crew of housekeepers” (well, if I had that kind of help…). I watched both of my parents take care of their mothers through debilitating illnesses (my grandfathers both died suddenly, which now seems merciful). She notes that the because the means by which they are able to have a child (donor eggs, IVF, surrogate mothers) are all so expensive, older parents skew wealthier and as such have much to offer their children.
Thomas Perl, a professor at Boston University, conducted the research and believes that it shows a connection between “an unusually healthy reproductive system and longevity.”  But he also thinks that there is “something about living with kids—all that running around, all that responsibility, all that social connectivity” that maintains health.


Not being able to become pregnant toward the end of their lives was protective for women when childbirth was dangerous and life expectancies low.
After 35, the risk of pre-term labor increases by 20 percent which can lead to babies with lung problems, digestive problems, neurological problems, and developmental delays. One obstetrician told Miller she saw older mothers in the hospital “all stroked out” as a result of pregnancy-induced hypertension.
And then I saw the TLC special.  It followed three couples from different demographics (very different from those profiled in New York Magazine) and told their stories more completely. As they followed her through a morning of getting the kids (who were preschool aged during filming) out the door, the narrator pointed out that her arthritis prevented her from doing many of the daily chores like bathing them and changing diapers.  Proof that she was too old, I thought. Her visit with her doctor focused heavily on the risks to both her and the second child and I thought she was crazy to even consider it. Through subtitles the woman described how she and her husband had been shunned by their village because they had been unable to have a child. Abortion rates for women aged 40 to 44 match those for the under 16s, figures for England and Wales show. According to the Social Security Administration’s calculator based solely on my date of birth, I am expected to live until I am 84.4 years old (though I better start exercising more if I really want that to be true).
My parents had to shuffle their own lives and jobs to drive to doctor’s appointments and sit by their bedsides but they were lucky because by that point my sister and I were old enough not just to take care of ourselves but to help.
Moreover, because of access to healthy lifestyles, preventive medicine, and health care when they are sick, rich people live longer.
Today, however, 50 is not near death and, for those with money and access to care, childbirth is not necessarily the death-defying experience it once was.
Advanced paternal age has also been linked with health issues such as autism, schizophrenia, childhood cancers, and autoimmune diseases. Even I was considered to be of advanced maternal age when I was pregnant with my second child at 37.
But then they introduced us to her 40-year-old husband who was happy to take on the role of the primary caregiver. But as we watched onscreen conversations between her, her husband, and her mother, I realized how thoughtful they were all being about balancing the risks with the desire to give their daughter a sibling (something every parent has to do to some extent when considering  a second, third, or fourth child). Her husband had even married her sister in the hopes that she might be able to give birth to an heir. While India may have a culture where extended family is available and close, in the US we do not. The sense of entitlement that came through—either real, inserted by the author, or simply assumed by me—was upsetting and I started going through all the reasons I was opposed to fifty-somethings having babies. While this speaks to so much of what is wrong with our society, it does take some of the wind out of the sails of people like me who looked at old parents as walking to briskly toward their grave only to leave a young child behind.
But Miller makes a good argument that adoption over 50 is very difficult to secure and those fertility doctors who are willing to take on older patients do so with great care. She also explained that she had already arranged for her niece to take custody of the children if anything were to happen to her and her husband.
It is extremely challenging to raise a child without being able to talk to your parents, to buy your first house without an experienced parent walking through it with you and pointing out what they would notice, to go to college without being able to crash with your folks during breaks.


Your children are probably grown—or getting there—and now you have more time to devote to your own interests.
That means that I will likely see them graduate high school and college, become women, and start their own families.
He will recover soon but I started to wonder if even the gap between me and my parents was too large  as I had to make plans for my young kids while I went to take care of their usual babysitter. One expert described putting each woman through an EKG to measure the health of her heart, sending her to a psychologist to explore her motivations and support system, making her run on a treadmill to see if her blood vessels can expand enough to accommodate the additional blood volume during pregnancy, and creating an artificial menstrual cycle to see if her uterus could sustain a pregnancy. The fertility doctor tested both sisters and determined that the older one had a better chance of having a successful pregnancy. Giving more time and attention to your health needs is especially important at this stage in life.
The likelihood that someone (male or female) who has a kid in their mid-to-late fifties sees all these events is far slimmer. The interviews from the couple’s home took place when the baby was just over a year and showed her being nursed by her mother and taken care of by a gaggle of doting relatives. While you will be able to view the content of this page in your current browser, you will not be able to get the full visual experience. In a culture where extended family members routinely live together and share the responsibilities of childcare, my biggest issue (death while the child is still young) seemed kind of moot. Which means that these people aren’t just going to be in their 80s when their kids graduate high school.
They are going to be in their NINETIES when their children no longer need them as a safety net. While menopause signals the end of the menstrual cycle and your reproductive years, less estrogen also means major changes for your body in other ways, too.
One of the first changes you're likely to notice if you've reached menopause is that you aren't having menstrual periods anymore. He relied on my father and my aunt for assistance– imagine if they were only 35 and still getting on their feet instead of in their 50s and financially stable, with the sort of jobs they could leave if they needed to to care for him.
If they are using another womans egg, we will transfer only one embryo, but if the woman is using her own eggs it is the responsiblity of the clinic to transfer no more than two embryos for a woman over the age of 50." "Unfortunately, I believe the key issue of concern here is being overlooked.
Sadly, multiple pregnancies have a high risk of failure, and these are quadruplets we are talking about, these babies will have a high risk of being handicapped." The previous oldest mother in the world was Maria del Carmen Bousada de Lara, a 66 year old who gave birth to IVF twin sons in 2006. While sun exposure over the years is mostly responsible for changes in your skin's appearance—more wrinkles and brown spots, for example—declining estrogen levels can cause the lining of your vagina to be thinner and drier as well.
That's why sexual activity for some women at this life stage can be uncomfortable or painful. Your skin care regimen should include moisturizing creams to prevent dry, flaky and sometimes itchy skin. People should be focusing on the positive aspects of bringing a child into the world later in life.



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