12.08.2014

Thinking of having a baby at 45

Having children is one of the biggest decisions that you will have to make with your partner.
In addition, some people have this cockamamy idea that having a baby can save their failing relationship, increase feelings of intimacy in their distant relationship, or make them happier than they ever could imagine with their current unhappy relationship.
Before you start thinking that all I'm anti-baby, let me explain (in case you didn't already know) that Hus and I are probably two of the most pro-baby people you will ever meet.
But, we also realize that having children puts a serious strain on our amazingly strong marriage. So unless you have a great starting-off point, having a child does not help your relationship. While a baby might test the relationship, the whole purpose of having a baby is to STRENGTHEN the relationship.


She thinks it will allow her to date without radiating the desperation of someone who has to have a baby right this very second. And for some of you, having a baby will make you feel closer and happier with your spouse and relationship.
You have to really love, and maybe more importantly really LIKE, the person who you have a baby with because even the most secure relationships are tested when a child is thrown into the picture. Those of you who are hoping to fix something, fill a void, or rekindle feelings in your relationship should probably steer away from baby-making as a solution to your problems. We have twins and we've highly considered having more (no Mom, I'm not pregnant), which if you have twins or know anyone who has twins, you know that wanting more after two at once is a pretty big deal. If a 25-year-old banks her eggs and, at 35, is up for a huge promotion, she can go for it wholeheartedly without worrying about missing out on having a baby.


You suddenly have to bring this huge bag with you where ever you go that's full of all kinds of junk for your baby's well-being and your sanity. I think Hus and I spend more on babysitting (remember, we have two kiddos) than we do on the actual meal when we go out (which isn't very often).




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