26.06.2014

Struggling to get pregnant after ectopic

On the last day of 2011, I went in to surgery to remove an ectopic pregnancy and the Fallopian tube it had destroyed. In the beginning of 2011, I was exasperated from trying to get pregnant for seven months without success. A week after my surgery, as my husband and I were trying to clean up the left-over Christmas clutter from our house, we came across the bag of presents we had received for the baby. That day, as my husband and I packed away those toys for a little one that we’ll never get to meet, we made a decision. I had an ectopic pregnancy in Dec 2010 and got pregnant in March – my husband is upstairs trying to get here to fall asleep as I type. Hello I had an ectopic pregnancy when I was 28 was my first pregnancy and only 2 weeks after finding out I was pregnant, the doc told me I was having a miscarriage.


As we said goodbye to the baby that brought us hope, we knew that we wouldn’t stop trying to get pregnant. Just weeks after writing about that emotional extra Christmas stocking, I was prepared to start using it.
To which at the time I fell pregnant I just moved from kzn so didn’t have a job or medical aid but still looked at it as a blessing. Now I am 40 and I don’t expect to become a mum at this stage however I have decided to start charting with Napro as my last chance to maybe satisfy that desire to see ectopic pregnancy explained. I ended up then going to the doctor and they advised me I wasn’t pregnant which I believe I miscarried.
Then two years ago in September 2012 without realising I started to get these sharp pains in my right side which where unbearable so just thought I should go and get a pregnancy test just to be sure and to my surprise a dark line came up and found out I was pregnant….


No matter how it goes for me if I find any answers on how to prevent ectopic pregnancies I will get back to you. The next morning I woke up in so much pain that a family member had to come get me and rush me through to the hospital and to which they tested and said I was pregnant but they didn’t know why I was in so much pain. They then sent me through to the gyni and after he looked at me and did a scan he advised me of terrible news that now my second pregnancy is an ectopic in my right tube.
Me and my partner have been together for nearly a year and we don’t wear protection but for some reason I am not falling pregnant even through its my biggest wish,,,, My period is due in 2 days but strange thing is today when I wipe I seem to get a brown discharge and its very strange as even through I have taken a test its come back negative.



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Comments to «Struggling to get pregnant after ectopic»

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