When it comes to scattering the ashes of a loved one, there are various options available in the UK. In this article, we will explore some of the most common places where people choose to scatter their ashes, as well as provide guidance on how to do so.

Where Can You Scatter Ashes?

In the UK, you can scatter ashes in a variety of open spaces, including:

  • Gardens of remembrance
  • Green spaces
  • Over water (rivers, lakes, or sea)
  • On private land (back gardens, sports grounds, or private farmland)

Some people may choose to scatter ashes in a place that was meaningful to the person who has passed away. Others may not leave instructions and it's up to their loved ones to decide where they would like to scatter their ashes.

Do You Need Permission to Scatter Ashes?

In the UK, there is no explicit law against scattering ashes, as long as you obtain permission from the landowner. The scattering of ashes laws & regulations in the UK state that you do not need permission to scatter ashes on your own land or over a body of water.

However, if you want to scatter ashes over public or private land (other than your own), you will need to request permission from the landowner. This includes parks, commons, beaches, or private farmland and churchyards. Additionally, it's always a good idea to check with the environmental agency before scattering ashes in a river or at sea.

Scattering Ashes on Private Land

If you want to scatter ashes on private land (such as a back garden), you will need to obtain permission from the landowner. This is usually straightforward and can be done by contacting the landowner directly.

Scattering Ashes in Public Spaces

To scatter ashes in a public park or green space, you will need to request permission from the local council. Most local councils and park trusts (such as the National Trust) will allow this, so long as you follow environmental guidelines.

Scattering Ashes at Sea

It's common for some religions, such as Sikhism, to scatter ashes in a body of flowing water. This can be a popular option for many people, regardless of their religious beliefs.

When scattering ashes at sea, it's essential to check with the relevant authorities (such as the Maritime and Coastguard Agency) to ensure that you comply with all regulations.

Scattering Ashes on Plants or Flowers

You may choose to mark the spot where you've scattered your loved one's ashes by placing a tree or rosebush. However, it's worth remembering that the acidity in ashes can damage the surrounding soil, making it harder for plants to grow. One way around this is to add a special compost mix to the ground that neutralizes the ashes.

Aerial Ashes

It's now possible to scatter your loved one's ashes from the sky with Aerial Ashes. This extraordinary way to say goodbye involves carrying the ashes up and scattering them in a special place of your choosing (such as local beauty spots, or even less accessible places like rivers or the sea).

Scattering Ashes Ceremony

You may want to hold a small ceremony around the scattering of ashes. This can be a lovely moment for you to say some words for your loved one as you scatter the ashes in your chosen location.

What to Say When Scattering Ashes

It's up to you what you'd like to say when scattering ashes. Some people choose to say a short prayer or a religious reading, while others may share personal stories or final words that they'd want to say to the person who has died. Another idea is to read a poem or lyrics from a favorite song.

Scattering ashes can be a beautiful way to honor and remember a loved one. Whether you choose to scatter them on private land, in public spaces, or at sea, there are many options available in the UK. By following these guidelines and considering your personal preferences, you can create a meaningful and memorable experience.

Find a Co-op Funeral Director

If you need help with scattering ashes or have questions about what to do with your loved one's ashes, please speak with your local Co-op Funeral Director. They offer a range of products to help you scatter a loved one's ashes, as well as memorial keepsakes if you want to keep some of their ashes with you.

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