id;question_label;question_guilt;question_shame 1;You make plans to meet a friend for lunch. At 5 o'clock, you realize you stood him up.;You'd think you should make it up to him as soon as possible.;"You would think: ""I'm inconsiderate."" " 2;You break something at work and then hide it.;"You would think: ""This is making me anxious. I need to either fix it or get someone else to.""";You would think about quitting. 3;You are out with friends one evening, and you're feeling especially witty and attractive. Your best friend's spouse seems to particularly enjoy your company.;"You would think: ""I should have been aware of what my best friend is feeling.""";You would probably avoid eye-contact for a long time. 4;At work, you wait until the last minute to plan a project, and it turns out badly.;"You would feel: ""I deserve to be reprimanded for mismanaging the project.""";You would feel incompetent. 5;You make a mistake at work and find out a co-worker is blamed for the error.;You would feel unhappy and eager to correct the situation. ;You would keep quiet and avoid the co-worker. 6;For several days you put off making a difficult phone call. At the last minute you make the call and are able to manipulate the conversation so that all goes well.;You would regret that you put it off.;You would feel like a coward. 7;While playing around, you throw a ball and it hits your friend in the face.;You would apologize and make sure your friend feels better.;You would feel inadequate that you can't even throw a ball. 8;You have recently moved away from your family, and everyone has been very helpful. A few times you needed to borrow money, but you paid it back as soon as you could.;You would return the favor as quickly as you could.;You would feel immature. 9;You are driving down the road, and you hit a small animal.;You'd feel bad you hadn't been more alert driving down the road. ;"You would think: ""I'm terrible.""" 10;You walk out of an exam thinking you did extremely well. Then you find out you did poorly.;"You would think: ""I should have studied harder.""";You would feel stupid. 11;You and a group of co-workers worked very hard on a project. Your boss singles you out for a bonus because the project was such a success.;You would feel you should not accept it.;You would feel alone and apart from your colleagues. 12;While out with a group of friends, you make fun of a friend who's not there.;You would apologize and talk about that person's good points.;You would feel small... like a rat. 13;You make a big mistake on an important project at work. People were depending on you, and your boss criticizes you.;"You would think: ""I should have recognized the problem and done a better job.""";You would feel like you wanted to hide. 14;You volunteer to help with the local Special Olympics for handicapped children. It turns out to be frustrating and time-consuming work. You think seriously about quitting, but then you see how happy the kids are.;"You would think: ""I should be more concerned about people who are less fortunate.""";You would feel selfish and you'd think you are basically lazy. 15;You are taking care of your friend's dog while they are on vacation and the dog runs away.;You would vow to be more careful next time.;"You would think, ""I am irresponsible and incompetent.”" 16;You attend your co-worker's housewarming party and you spill red wine on their new cream-colored carpet, but you think no one notices.;You would stay late to help clean up the stain after the party.;You would wish you were anywhere but at the party.