Share
Tweet
Forward

Dear Parent,
Have you ever seen that mom that can turn on the tears in an instant to get her teenager to do what she wants them to do, or that dad who has a certain look that brooks no argument whatsoever? Did you have a parent that was able to elicit the desired response from you whether you agreed or not? Are you a parent that can be manipulative or coercive with your teen?

Parents will often tell me that they just want what’s best for their teenager. And I believe them. But, unfortunately, so many parents go about it the wrong way. They try to control their teens instead of guide them. And there is a very big difference!

Guiding them teaches your teenager the power they have in making a choice. It teaches them that they are responsible for any consequence that may come with their choice. Trying to control them through manipulation only pushes the growing young adults far from the wise choices we are so desperate for them to embrace.

Take a moment and ask yourself this question. “Do I control or guide my teenager?” And be very honest in your answer!

The great thing about this is that it is not too late to begin again!

Check out this month’s Online Parenting Class that focuses on how we guide our teenager without controlling them. I hope this is a help to you!

Click for Video HERE

Walking this journey with you,

Mark

 

The commander of Columbia shuttle that disintegrated in mid-air was so devoted to family worship that he recorded eighteen videos for his family, one for each day that he was supposed to be gone. How valuable do you think those videos are to his family now? What a legacy he has left. I have personally used this bible for 2 year for family worship and it is an excellent resource.
Check out www.youthoftheforest.org calandar every week to see what is going on for your kids. There is also a parent section just for you.
FLC Parents Facebook
FLC Parents Facebook
FLC Parents Twitter
FLC Parents Twitter
FLC Parents Website
FLC Parents Website