Things Ive Learned From Women Who Have Dumped Me - Smart Things

Hey, it sucks to be dumped. I know it, you know it. But I have to say that instead of crying in my beer or feeling sorry for myself, I've used the experiences as a way to make myself such a great guy that I can get almost any woman I want. So, the things I've learned from women who have dumped me have helped me have more and better relationships, and this information can help you too.. if you listen to it.

I used to go crazy trying to figure out what to do to keep my woman happy. It seemed like no matter what I did it was the wrong thing. I was either too nice, or too cold. It just seemed I couldn't win. Finally I got so fed up with being dumped all the time I went to an expert to find out what I was doing wrong. No, it's not who you think. I didn't go ask a buddy for advice I asked a woman. Smart, huh?

I figured most of my buddies didn't know any more than I did, although I knew they'd never admit that. But a woman, who better to get into the female mind  than someone who already lived there? So I asked my female friend to give me some pointers, and I have to say the advice was pretty good. 

First off, as stupid as this may sound, she told me to stop thinking of all women as the same person. She told me to think about my friends. They all had different personalities, different things they liked and didn't like. So, why in God's name, was I lumping all women in the same category?  

Not all women like chocolate or to shop for shoes. My 'advisor' pointed out and then when I lumped all women into the same category not only was it kind of demeaning to them; it was also stupid. If I didn't actually know who my girlfriend was and what she liked how could I even know if  we liked the same things?

So lesson one my friends, is to avoid stereotypes of women at all costs. Take the time to get to know any women you meet. Don't go into any relationship with preconceived expectations. 

Lesson two, men and women aren't really all that different. We all just want someone who thinks we're the greatest thing on the planet. If you treat your woman like that's how you think of her, most of the time she'll treat you that way too. Then you both win. You are both getting the adoration you both want from the other. Everyone is happy.  

Hey, I don't mean to oversimplify things but according to my expert, we usually make things more complicated than they have to be. So if you want to be happy with the woman in your life use the things I ve learned from women who have dumped me and follow my advice. It works.