Dating Tips For Women - Shine Ladies Shine

I'm not a shrink or an expert but I think there are some pretty common sense dating tips for women
 that if they are followed will greatly increase any woman's chances of finding happiness and love. Ignore them at your own peril!

Every woman is different, and every woman has different wants and needs in a relationship (are you listening guys) and only you can determine what your 'perfect' mate will be. Now is your time to shine. Whether you are single out of choice or because of circumstances beyond your control, take control and enjoy this time of your life. It may well end up being much better than you would have thought possible. 

Here are some tips to keep in mind, most of these are geared to anyone who is re-entering the dating world, but a lot of them are good to follow for any woman:

1.Get rid of the baggage. Everyone has some baggage, and the older you are it's likely the more baggage you have. Don't think of it as being bad, it's made you who you are today. But it is time to stow that baggage in the overhead bin so it doesn't fall out and hit you on the head when you run into some turbulence. Live, learn and move on. 

2. It's high time you stop worrying about what other people will think. Who gives a crap what your great aunt Sally will say if you date a younger guy (or a younger girl for that matter). It's your life and you have the right to live it to the fullest. Figure out who you are, what you want and don't settle for less. 

3. Don't restrict your dating to only your local establishments. There is a great big internet just filled with lots of very attractive fish. You don't have to limit yourself to just your little pond (do go slowly though when meeting someone online. Take time to get to know them before you meet them by talking on the phone. When it is time to meet, meet. Don't let them come to your house).
 
4. Do not change who you are to accommodate someone else. You don't need to. The only things you should ever change are the things that you really aren't satisfied with. Don't talk yourself into believing that you should change X, Y or Z when in reality you know that the only reason you want to change is to please someone else. They either love you for who you are or you will find someone who will!

Ladies, it's your time to shine. Live your life to the fullest. We are lucky because we are no longer burdened with all the rules that once governed so much of our lives. We are free to express ourselves fully and richly, so go for it.  That is just one of the dating tips for women
 that I think most any woman (and maybe some men) can really benefit from. Enjoy!