If you're a mature women how has decided to start dating again, you may be intrigued to know that you can find a cougar dating site online to help you meet your Mr. Right. Actually, there are a lot of them. There are many men who are bored with women their own age and yearn for an older more experienced woman to spend time with. Before you settle on any particular site, though, make sure you check out all the specifics first.

I hope I don't sound sexist, but if you look around (which I did recently at a class reunion) it seems like women are aging better than men. Maybe it's just that they are trying harder, I don't know, but there are a lot of middle aged women that look really good... and not just really good for their age, but really good. I can see why a younger man might be drawn to a secure, intelligent, confidant, attractive older woman. 

It's often far less stressful than dating the women of his age. For most of us, men and women, the younger we are the more insecure we are. There are just so many unanswered questions in life and many people can feel insecure and unsure of themselves. 

I'm not saying that every woman over 40 has it all figured out, but I do think that most of them realize that it's good to not have all the answers; and they're OK with that. What I think most of them do have figured out is who they are, who they want to be and who they want to be with. 

When we are young we are often 'pushed' into relationships. Maybe our parents are pushing for grandchildren or maybe all of our friends are already married and we think we had better get on the stick. The 'pushing' is usually subtle, but it's there. I think that's why many of us actually marry the wrong person. I did, the first time at least. 

Once we get a little older and have a few more life experiences under our belts, I think a lot of us are just less willing to settle. We want what we want and we're not going to accept less or apologize for it. That is why so many older women are  so appealing to some younger men, they like the stability. 

When you first join up to a dating site, take a close look at what they have to offer. Make sure that you can find the person in the age range you are looking for. If you're interested in dating someone in their 40's or 50's you obviously wouldn't want to waste your time or money on a site that caters to 60 and 70 year olds.  

Also, find out the sites terms of service. A lot of the sites will offer a free initial membership but you'll have to upgrade if you want to use more advanced features or if you want to actually meet someone. You'll have many choices when it comes to a 
cougar dating site.