Cougar Dating Tips - Get Ahead Of The Game

More and more young men are taking an interest in dating older women. It's becoming increasingly popular probably because women in their 40's and 50's are looking better and sexier than ever. More than ever before age really is just a number. A lot of men understand that a women who is confidant in herself is much more enjoyable to be around and there is a lot less drama. A confidant women can also bring out the best in any man. It's going to be a little different than dating that girl from college so if you want to make a good impression take note of of these cougar dating tips
.

1. All women are different. I know this may sound obvious, but it's a common mistake to think of all women as the same with the same wants, needs, and expectations, etc. If you want to be successful in dating a woman, no matter what their age, take the time to get to know her and don't assume she is like the last girl you dated or that you 'know' what she likes, needs, etc.  That is one of the quickest ways to be shown the door.

This is especially true with older women. They've had their own experiences and they've had more time to figure things out. They aren't going to be receptive to some guy who thinks he knows what she wants (or what she should want) if you come on with that approach you'll probably be going home early (any guy who acts like that is just trying to cover up the fact that he is very insecure. A younger woman may not realize that but an older woman will).

2. Don't act like you're doing the woman a favor by dating her. Some younger guys think that the woman should almost act grateful to have their attention. Come on, give me a break. That woman is hot, sexy, confidant, intelligent, and most likely well off financially. It's you who should make sure you are on the top of your game. 

3. The scruffy basement dweller look may be a hit with the younger women, but it won't get you far with an older woman. Women of all ages usually prefer a guy who looks good. They like someone with a sense of style and who has obviously taken time to make the most out of his appearance, especially on a first date.  You wouldn't want her to show up for your first date in old, wrinkled clothes with no make up and her hair a mess, would you?  What makes you think she would like it any better if you did?

For any guy out there who is intrigued by the idea of dating an older women, I say go for it. Women, like a fine wine, only get better with age. To increase the chances that you don't make a fool of yourself, look over these cougar dating tips
. Most older women will hold you to a higher standard so I hope you're ready!