Comments on: Might As Well Face It, You’re Addicted To Home http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/ The PlayStation Home Magazine Fri, 13 Feb 2015 21:20:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.2 By: Arvind http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-141080 Wed, 06 Jun 2012 02:51:38 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-141080 An addiction balciasly starts out as a method of coping with problems. Its a form of escapism. Once you adapt to that method of coping it becomes an addiction. For example:-some people are emotional eaters aka they use food as a crutch in response to stress and become addicted to compulsive eating.-in response to a negative body image,some people become bulimic or anorexic to cope with their thoughts. That also becomes an addiction.-To try and forget things or ignore problem, there are all kinds of things they can do to cope. Video games are a form of escapism, as are drugs and alcohol, reckless behaviours, etc .All these coping mechanisms are a learned behaviour, and they are extremely hard habits to break out of, especially if there are deep issues involved. Any compulsive habit is an addiction, and would require treatment to break out of. So yah, a video game addiction is the same idea as a drug addiction, except instead of a fix or a joint, they use good old mario brothers or guitar hero for satisfaction.

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By: Ro Schro http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-89357 Wed, 15 Feb 2012 08:42:21 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-89357 So I am just going to scroll up to my post from before and…oh look, that is pretty much what I said. Althogh, I think ElSkutto did a better job of articulating it.

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By: ElSkutto http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-89107 Tue, 14 Feb 2012 16:23:16 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-89107 I’m no Doctor, I’m just…old. : )

Addiction and OCD are similar in some ways, but very different at their cores. Addiction relates to the overriding need to perform a behaviour, either mental or physical. As stated before, an addict simply cannot operate normally until they feed their addiction, and this is true whether the symptoms are mental (not being able to concentrate, irritability, etc…) or physical (the shakes, profuse sweating, nausea, etc…). It is a dependence of which the addict is well aware.

As far as I know, OCD sufferers don’t have dependence issues, and in some cases are completely unaware of their behaviour until it gets pointed out to them. It’s more like a nervous tick than an addiction. And unlike most addictions, the compulsive behaviour isn’t something that gets triggered after a period of time; OCD behaviour is usually triggered by a stimulus of some kind. OCD is purely psychological. And there is no reward or good feelings associated with the behaviour -- it is simply performed through habit, and not dependence.

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By: Ro Schro http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-88996 Tue, 14 Feb 2012 06:39:00 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-88996 Well then Doctor, I would have to say I concur with your diagnosis. (See “Catch me if you can” to understand the joke there) Anyways, so then to understand correctly, addiction seems to be less about the activity or ritual, as it is avoiding the negative feelings associated with NOT doing it. We as humans do tend to do more to avoid pain than gain pleasure, so that makes sense.
So then ElSkutto, since you jumped in the pool here, what is your take on differentiating between addiction and OCD?

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By: Olivia_Allin http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-88816 Mon, 13 Feb 2012 18:22:17 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-88816 Nice answer… I’ll just say Ditto.

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By: ElSkutto http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-88771 Mon, 13 Feb 2012 14:06:01 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-88771 It isn’t frequency that determines addiction, rather, it’s the physical or psychological dependence. If you can skip a day of Home without getting all stressed out about it; it isn’t an addiction. The same applies for all the other examples you’ve given -- if you suffer physical discomfort from the lack of performing a specific behaviour, then you are addicted physically. If you simply cannot rest, or think clearly until you’ve performed that behaviour, then you have a psychological addiction. Anyone can get addicted to pretty much any type of behaviour, but simply engaging in that behaviour will not necessarily create a dependence in everyone.

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By: Ro Schro http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-88723 Mon, 13 Feb 2012 09:52:14 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-88723 No they certainly weren’t, although what can I say…the opinions expressed here are those of the participants, and do not reflect Canada’s as a nation. Figured I would put the disclaimmer in just in case a fellow countryman were to read this and feel I was attempting to represent the enitre country with my babbling.
And while yes we do both love to argue…ok maybe debate is a better word, we both do it with a level of respect that is considerate of the other person.
So lets get to the example of mowing the lawn, which is 3 by 3, and using a non powered push mower. If you mow it every day, then one can only guess why. Maybe you need something to do for 5 min everyday, maybe you want everyone to think your tiny yard is emaculate and associate that with your entire life being the same, maybe its an excuse to get out of the house everyday…who knows or really cares. The point is by doing this, you will appear to be either crazy, bored, obsessive or so concerned with what everyone thinks about your place that you mow the lawn every day. So while you think this behaviour has no real consequence, everyones opinion of you will be reduced to either pity, or they will be laughing at you. Both of which I would call negative.
I don’t consider OCD an addiction but rather a seperate condition. With an additction a person makes a conscious choice to continue doing something even though the long term effects of doing so are harmful. OCD on the otherhand is a near reflex action to perform a task or movement when certain critera are met.
To better clarify the two: A smoker will keep smoking because addicted, but knows all to well it is bad. It gives a good feeling so the long term effects are ignored in lieu of the immediate gain. A person who is OCD about having all their possesions in the proper place will notice the minute something is out of place and react immediately to put it back, like a reflex. You could be OCD about HOW you smoke for example, but that would be a bit of both and the the reasons for them are completely different.
As for the self love example, lets assume that we are not talking about Paul Reubens or George Michaels, but rather the average person within their own homes. So to your degree statement, that pretty much goes with the last thing I asked before…how much does something have to be done to be an addiction?

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By: Olivia_Allin http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-88427 Sun, 12 Feb 2012 05:51:50 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-88427 Thanks for your comment Robin. Add some pictures and up your word count and you would have your own article ;)
I agree with what you are saying but I think you misunderstood the previsions I put in place in my first paragraph. I said “in which benefits outweigh the cost” and your examples take it to levels it was not intended to include. To clarify my example of mowing the lawn. Lets say a hand pushed non motor driven mower was used so buy using said green energy we are not polluting or wasting gas. Lets say that yard is 3 foot by 3 foot so it takes 4 minutes to finish. Or we can agree to just work off generalities as I has intended and except it as read…lol
Others reading this please understand that Robin and I are dear friends and enjoy few things more than our playful debates.
Back to your comment. I would like to know if you could consider OCD as a form of addiction? And by definition a health addiction is not longer health if taken to an extreme as you outline. Again I suggest that to outweigh the benefits with the cost changes the category. As for your example of self love of the physical type… again the degree in which it is done is part of how it is categorize. And I would add to that with your example, where it is done! No one wants to see that in an Applebee’s whilst enjoying a chicken fried steak.
Hope that helps clear up my lack of specifics in my examples. I’ll strive for more iron clad example in the future.
Again, others reading this… This is how Robin and I have fun. No Canadians where hurt in the making of this reply.

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By: Ro Schro http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-88173 Sat, 11 Feb 2012 09:27:55 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-88173 Olivia, another super article. It was great catching up with you the other day, although as you mentioned in your article, there were a few Homies (see what I did there with Homies) out that night looking to provoke a reaction.

I’m not sure what it is about when you and I talk in one of the more central places on home, but we enivitably draw out sh!t disturbers. But anyways one thing I am sure was hard to get over was the addiction to pills. I sometimes have a hard time pulling my butt out of bed, and that is not because I am in pain (its cause I love to sleep in). So I can only imagine what it is for you everyday.

Anyhow, I don’t want to dwell on that and stray from the point I wish to get to. While I would not say I am addicted to Home, I do enjoy it often. Sometimes more frequently, sometimes less…but never huge gaps between visits. What I did wish to say is that the quote from Wikipedia and your first paragraph seem to contradict themselves. Now we all know Wiki is not a true sourse, but that does sound like a dictionary definition for the word.

Having said that, implying that an addiction can have no effect seems unlikely. Take for example your example of moving the lawn. If you mow your lawn every day, then ya I would say you are addicted. But see there is an ill effect in that you waste gas and time, and that you focus on such a trivial detail…seems more like OCD really. And the healthy addiction while good, can become negative if done too much. If you over exercise for instance, you might become underweight. Spend too much time on it, and you may not be eating properly, sleeping enough or doing other stress relieving activities.

I wasn’t sure if I should bring it up, but we are adults here so I am just going to throw it out. What about being addicted to masturbation. It benifits you, hurts no one and costs nothing (but some time and kleenex). But then if that is all you do, socially are you limiting yourself from finding a partner?

And how often must we really repeat something, or how often must we use something for it to BE an addiction? Just putting in my 2 cents there.

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By: Olivia_Allin http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-88032 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 23:15:13 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-88032 Told ya

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By: :-)bb(-: http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-88027 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 23:02:18 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-88027 OK Olivia.
Hi I’m bb and I’m a Home-aholic.

You’re right that was freeing:-)It almost feels as if I’ve been initiated into something way bigger than me.
I wonder how I’ll feel after I hit Post.

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By: Olivia_Allin http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-88009 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:47:40 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-88009 Not asking for detail nor are we judging. But just making the statement that you acknowledge that you are a Home-aholic is so freeing. I think just the fact that people read this article or any article here shows that they are addicted to Home. So interested in the Home experience that even while not on Home we look to outside sources for more Home fixes. But that is another article in its self

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By: :-)bb(-: http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-88006 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:38:46 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-88006 lol I would need a whole page for that ;)

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By: Olivia_Allin http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-88000 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:09:33 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-88000 I tried questioning the word “addicted” but it never replied to my e-mails and its publicist said it was refusing to comment… I think it is hiding something.

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By: Olivia_Allin http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-87999 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:07:18 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-87999 Glad you enjoyed it… but you didn’t admit to your addiction

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By: Olivia_Allin http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-87998 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:06:35 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-87998 Hi Burbz… you are not only a Home-aholic you are also a Home-pusher and I mean that in a good way

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By: Olivia_Allin http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-87997 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:04:39 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-87997 Hi Jayson… look on the bright side… think of all the money you are saving by not renting the shoes ;)

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By: Olivia_Allin http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-87996 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:03:20 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-87996 Indeed, and I don’t see anything wrong with that!

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By: Olivia_Allin http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-87994 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 21:02:09 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-87994 Your name is Sue and you are a Dork-aholic

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By: Kid Fleetfoot http://www.hsmagazine.net/2012/02/might-as-well-face-it-youre-addicted-to-home/#comment-87992 Fri, 10 Feb 2012 20:55:08 +0000 http://www.hsmagazine.net/?p=22127#comment-87992 I would question the word “addicted” but the writer was there and should know. I was in a bad place too so maybe I understand.

It’s a good article.

Bye.

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