Perhaps the best advice you can give someone about having a relationship with a married man is telling her not to even start. The love of your life just might be a married man."Being part of any couple can be challenging and unpredictable, as we all know. But when the man with whom you're involved is part of another couple, someone else's husband, then the challenge and unpredictability can make your life a messy, unhappy waiting game that you will rarely win.The woman who is in love with a married man lives a life that, for the most part, is shrouded in secrecy.
She is alone most of the time and spends it waiting: waiting for her married lover to call, to come meet her, to share some precious time together. The needs of the many (namely, his family) will always outweigh your needs.His family will always come first, and that includes his wife. Simply because he talks in a negative way about his marriage doesn't mean that his obligations to his wife are any less important to him. Whether or not they have children is a moot point; he will always feel as if he has to be a husband to her and take care of the marriage, whether he truly loves her or not.


His life with you is secret and always will be.No matter how much you may want to walk in the sunshine with him and have him openly acknowledge his love for you, it won't happen. He will not leave his wife.Less than 5 percent of men leave their wives for the woman with whom they are having an affair.
Whether it is because of all the legal and financial problems attached to divorce, religious beliefs or the fact that they have become comfortable with their marriage the way it is -- or even because they still have a certain affection for their wives, men rarely end up with the other woman. Even Katharine Hepburn knew, and accepted, this fact during her long affair with Spencer Tracy. When it's over, he will move on.To safeguard yourself from too much emotional pain, you need to understand that he can only be a small part of your life and will never be more than that no matter how many promises are made.
You need to have a life that works and that is full enough to withstand the pain of the eventual breakup. He has one and you need one, too.A solid circle of friends and a social life separate from your hidden life with him is a necessity.


It allows you to see yourself through the eyes of another man who finds you interesting and attractive. It helps to remember that the man with whom you are intimately involved in "your other life" is not living as a monk with his wife.Being involved in an affair with someone else's husband is an almost surefire trip from ecstatic highs at the beginning to a depressing abyss at the end.
Understand the basics of exactly what you are getting into, and what your status is.You need to step back and identify the priorities -- your priorities -- in a relationship with a married man.



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