My husband and I have been together for 16 years, we’ve got two beautiful children and what, in many ways, seems a great life. The men claimed their bad tempers would melt away if their wives made love with the same sort of gusto they had when they first met, while the women said they might be more willing if their husbands courted them as they had in the early days. Maybe we can all learn something from Katie Morgan, and embrace our sexuality without shame! I’ve been with my husband for 16 years and love him to pieces, but in recent years my libido has dropped away, while his hasn't.
What I only understood later was how intrinsic to a man’s self-esteem is the idea that his wife actually desires him sexually. Part of the reason that he might feel distant, though, is because he feels as if you don’t want him sexually. No one wants to talk about it because it is so personal not to mention that everyone assumes the husband wants to have sex more often than the wife and when this is not the case you feel like something is wrong with you.


I always felt embarrassed when my girlfriends talked about how their husband always wants to have sex. The lack of any kind of intimacy, especially the blatant way he ignores me makes me feel cornered and trapped. My husband and I are trying to work things out for the sake of our daughter, but my husband has as much emotions as an ice cube.
Nevertheless, it’s demoralising for any spouse to be sexually rejected time after time, while any reason-able person understands that the stress of work and childcare can sap your libido.Those who experience depletion of desire can find it hard to comprehend how devastating that can be on their partner.
You need to explain to your husband that you feel under ­pressure at work and at home and it’s eroding your sense of desire.
There was hardly a man there who didn’t have some sympathy for your husband, and barely a woman who didn’t feel solidarity with you.
I wear makeup and heels, sexy clothes, but to get a hug and a descent kiss from my own husband takes a lot more, and I don’t know how much more.


I told my best friend this and she was horrified, saying if she turned her husband down more than twice on the trot she'd fear he’d have an affair. A woman I know, whose husband went off sex during a stressful takeover of his business, said: ‘There are few sensations more lonely than lying awake in bed after the person you love most has rejected your advances yet again.
No matter what my husband said about wanting to be wanted it didn’t make any sense to me. It’s important normal service resumes before the passing sexless months become a chasm between you and your husband. Ignoring your spouse’s yearnings in any area can prove divisive, but ignoring their desire for sex — as any divorce lawyer will tell you — is frequently the most dangerous.



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