When he is going for a walk, or a movie, to a restaurant or such similar places where you both have been together, cherish the memories, go over it, remind him that how much you are looking forward to make those memories again when you meet him again. People tend to think long-distance relationships are one of the hardest possible ways of loving someone.
However, I knew this serenity would come and go; frustration could kick in eventually and challenge us.
It‘s important that you speak, listen, write, fight, and laugh with your partner about everything that’s meaningful to you. Even if you aren’t miles apart, you want to find the right balance of interaction, and spice up communication with surprises here and there.
I’m not suggesting oppressing worries (that may be reasonable in unhealthy relationships), but I’d like to encourage you to choose a positive outlook when it’s healthy, instead of blocking yourself with limiting thoughts or labels. In a long-distance relationship it may even take more time to realize the other one is just as human as you. As long as you respect and love your partner, you will always find a way to deal mindfully with conflict and disagreement. Even if you see your loved one often, you still need to consciously choose to spend quality time together. I’ve learned that physical distance does not equal emotional distance, and there is so much to explore.
These are just a few ways to find strength and happiness in a committed long-distance relationship. I love that Naea I’m so happy for you guys and I do wish the same ending for me and my boy. Long distance relationships take a lot of energy and they can fuel you with just as much love. I know, it will be challenging but you better keep walking and building a path rather than thinking and worrying and not doing anything about the situation. So, from my experience I know how challenging and uncomfortable it can be, and you may loose a great deal of the relationship you used to had with your family – doubts in your decision can be so hurtful. You may start talking to your mum or dad (the one you have a closer bound to or who shapes the decisions in your family), and explain them your situation. It will make him feel that no matter where you are even the little things matter and you care about him, most deeply.


I live in one: As a young European, I am deeply in love with my African boyfriend who pursues his career in Asia. After dating for a few months and sharing a wonderful time in an Asian country, we split up, as he had many doubts about things that seemed to separate us. After one year—when I had already returned to my home country—he approached me again, explaining how wrong he was, and asking for a second chance. Around one year and two visits later, the downsides of the distance did indeed knock me off.
We need to keep putting our heads up high and take the distance as our current external state that shapes us but will change eventually. But I always wished for a wonderful man with a beautiful character who loves me for who I am. Try to first see what it is in you that makes you irritated, and exchange thoughts about it calmly and respectfully. Be creative, play with the technical possibilities—celebrate occasionally with a dinner on Skype, watch a movie via shared screen, or dance to some good music. Your joy about sharing those day-to-day things may be very high, as you do not take them for granted. I can feel the strength and commitment with which you showed up in order to being finally together ~ what a wonderful reward. I am very happy for you and your love, you (as well as the other success stories commented below) give me hope.
You could spend the summers working there, or you could take up internships, volunteer work etc. And as you say, you’re still very young, and you can always reconsider your path when you feel it is not what you truly want.
In my part of the world the traditions are not as strict as in other cultures but I’m still in your shoes. But, on the other hand, I feel it’s so important to stand up for yourself, for him and your joint feelings.
Sometimes, it surely takes a while of adjusting to a long-distance, and developing the energy needed for it. At this point in time, our differences seemed to be too wide to merge them into a happy, long-lasting life together. If you take on challenges together, it’s easier to handle the physical distance, and you get closer and surely learn a lot about each other.


However, I’m getting exhausted from always having to be the one who is strong or the one who believes in us. A picture says thousand words; it will keep reminding him, how much he loves and misses you. This will remind him of how beautiful it would be if you were together and were making out. You speak of the many lessons we learned as well in communicating, setting realistic expectations, and understanding doubt. And your boyfriend should see you, meet your friends, family, places that are important to you, your culture. I told them about my relationship straight-head onwards, talked to them, explained them many times how happy I am with my sweetheart, and that I won’t give up on us just because our bond throws them out of their comfort zone.
Finding this out can be very painful too, but at least you would have tried, and knew, it’s not meant to be for now. But, if you gave it some time, and your partner doesn’t commit to the same level you do, you probably set yourself up to much pain. However, he’s only been to California a couple times and sometimes I feel like its better to visit him because he has more privacy at his 3 story house than my 1 story house. We love, we work, we play, and we face challenges head-on as that is how we learned that they are best overcome. He’s broken up with me three times, all doubting his ability to be a man and (more so) be my man.
I think it also helps that my guy is sweet like he used to sing me a song everyday, do whatever request i asked from him and he even make a song just for me. This makes me hold on to him till the time that we meet (he promised that we will see each other personally within this year but no exact date yet). Not everyone understands it, they doubt us but we don’t let that stop us because we know how what we share is as real as it gets. Don’t let the distance define your relationship if your hearts are pure the love needs no help in defining what you have.



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