Same as you should do with a younger woman, treat her with respect, be polite, listen to her when she talks.
Since we’re talking about much younger women here, this article is really geared towards men over age 30 or so.
Type 1s, VYW who are disgusted at the thought of dating any man older than about four or five years older than they are, regardless of how good-looking or confident the older men might be. Younger women, even Type 2s, are hypersensitive about creepy older men, as well they should be (for their own safety reasons). I see way too many older guys who do have chances with younger women completely blow it by being too creepy, too verbally sexual, way too fast.
You must take care of your physical appearance more than you did when you were a younger dude. By the way, I think society downplays the awesome superpowers a man has when he’s both older and physically attractive. While this is certainly not the norm for that age range, there are many women out there like this.
Speaking IN GENERAL, younger women get into open relationships faster and easier but tend to be more dramatic and jealous in those relationships. I know plenty of men well into their 50s who have relationships like this, both with much younger women and women over 33.
Yes, I’ve said many times that you can sleep with over-33s very fast if you exclusively use social circle game to find them. Also remember that if you have very solid game and look good, many Type 3s will appear to you as Type 2s.
Good luck with that, my goal is to look as young as I can while I can and I have solid knowledge to achieve that. I’m an older guy (49) who does day game and look nothing like my age, plus am into music and pop culture stuff that people half my age and younger are into, not from trying to act like a younger person, but because I just tend to get on way better with most people who are younger. That’s why I said in another comment that if when I was young I knew of direct stop daygame I would have approached the Eastern seaboard of the United States. You’re right in one sense, but I have heard many women describe how they feel a visceral attraction for young hot guys. Life imitates art: as Kyle Buchanan wrote for Vulture last month, Depp is only one of many aging male Hollywood stars whose onscreen love interests remain forever young. The culturally prescribed response to stories like Depp's or that of the OK Cupid data is a knowing nod: Older men chasing young women is a tale as old as time.


It's not just women who lose out as a consequence of this fixation on the older man, younger woman ideal.
Many people who concede that older men's obsession with younger women is disillusioning and destabilizing insist that the sexual choices of men like Johnny Depp are driven by natural imperatives. Then, it announces the breach affected a certain number of people—more than it thought at first. Whenever I go out on a first date with a VYW, not only do I not act young, but I will often play up the older man aspect. In other words, all the things you would never do if you were on a date with an over-33 woman (because then she’ll shove you in Make Him Wait zone). There are millions of younger women out there who are dying for a confident, non-creepy, much older man to sweep them off their feet.
One of the most mentally rewarding relationships I ever had was with a woman I dated for about 2 years, while she was 19 and then 20. They do, and as I said above they are often happier once they’re in one than younger women. In general my first-date conversation flows from random stuff (safe topics like family, work, etc), to her past relationships, to sex. Nice Guy) says many men are afraid to start anything with a woman, because many men are confused about their options on how to end things with a woman (without undue guilt, regret, etc.). The only person in the PUA sphere that is 45+ and gets young women through game is the Lovesystems coach Jeff Bullet.
A culture in which older men value younger women more than their own female peers does damage to everyone. When I've written about this subject in the past, I'm invariably challenged by young women with boyfriends their fathers' age, demanding that I stop judging their love.
Though I still date women my age (and older!), younger women have become such a normal and regular part of my life, I no longer consider it something unique or interesting enough to talk about.
In extreme cases these guys invade the clubs or college campuses to hit on younger women where they often look woefully out of place.
Being an older man, but acting like a younger man (or worse, lying about your age) doesn’t make any sense. Men their age dating younger gals is the biggest threat to these women, and many of them can’t emotionally handle it.
She was extremely intelligent and amazingly mature for her age, and we had many long, detailed, philosophical discussions that were the equivalent level of discourse as when I date a woman in her 40s.


This is why the vast majority of monogamous relationships are initiated by the man, not the woman.
In fact the 8 I mentioned in my earlier post is easily the hottest woman I’ve ever attracted and we first got together on my 37th birthday last year. I don’t think so, because over-age-35 guys who are very good at attracting much younger women may get a skewed perception of how many Type 2s there are out there. Other than that, I have yet to see any examples of older guys pulling off daygame with younger women.
This is about the way in which young women come of age surrounded by reminders that they are at their most desirable when they are still at their most uncertain and insecure.
A man in his 40s who wants to date women in their 20s is making the same calculation as the man who pursues a "mail-order bride" from a country with less egalitarian values. Being fat, or having hair grow out of the side of your neck, or dressing in styles that were outdated 20 years ago might be perfectly okay for provider-hunting women your age, but it won’t be okay for the younger ones. But it does mean you need to pay attention to your body, grooming, and fashion and place a higher priority on these things if dating much younger women is something you’re interested in.
These gals hope beyond hope that someday they can find a (non-creepy!) much older man to fulfill the fantasies they’ve had all their lives.
So I can relate to those guys who tells you that they feel young and have a young vibe (and of course are not clowns). Some young women are attracted to older men (for a host of possible reasons), but even these find too many men who are, in the end, deeply unsafe.
All a young man has to do is optimize his physique and his clothing style, get out of his parents house, overcome approach anxiety, learn how to eliminate anti-game, approach approach approach, and be bold and physically aggressive. The strategic reproductive benefit of choosing a younger woman diminished as the age gap widened. If a young man does that and approaches 20+ girls a week, at the end of a couple of years he should have all the abundance he wants.



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