Helen Gurley Brown perpetuated certain ideas about marriage in Sex and the Single Girl: namely that married men are fair game. And now that I’ve traipsed down my own path with a married man, I’m really not any clearer. Still, I don’t exactly endorse the views on married men that Helen puts forth in Sex and the Single Girl. Any woman that knowingly has an affair with a married man 100% deserves to be cheated on when she gets married.
At least 3 times a week I get an email from women asking me about the married man they're dating. If you're having an affair with a married man, this going to be a virtual slap in the face, and it's one you need.


A lot of women date married men because they're so afraid of getting out there and meeting men. When I was growing up, I had my own ideas about marriage: namely, that the two people in it remained faithful to one another. When I was a child, of course, I didn’t know that there were studies claiming that 80% of men were unfaithful. I managed to extract myself from those dicey situations and move into a phase that didn’t involve men who were already committed to other people. They have relationships with married guys because deep down they know it's never going to go anywhere. I ended up concluding that there are women who know how to keep married men as “pets” and I’m simply not one of them.


So treating a married man like, say, cumin or harissa—something to be added to an otherwise less interesting chicken recipe—just isn’t within the realm of possibilities. There’s also the matter that I saw first-hand the kind of unspoken but pervasive pain infidelity caused, not to mention the fact that the married man I fell for pummeled me—though certainly not intentionally. But, arguably even worse, I suddenly became aware that one could live an entire life this way: afterwards, you see, I suddenly found myself doused in a sort of secret perfume that seemed to attract other married men.
I’d never really had a married guy so much as ask me to lunch before and suddenly they were all around, blatantly hitting on me.



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