After attending Tony Robbin’s signature event Unleash The Power Within 5 times within the last 5 years, I decided to finally step up and attend his most advanced program, Date With Destiny in Palm Springs of December 2012.
If you follow this blog at all or watch my videos, you most likely know that I’m a huge Tony Robbins fan and have been heavily influenced by his work. Last year when I attended UPW in New Jersey and San Jose, I wrote a 4-part series review of the event on this blog, along with lengthy videos and details about the experience.
This is something that most people are already good at, or at least those that were in attendance of the event. Tony Robbins says that the #1 problem you have is that you think you’re not supposed to have any problems. Emotion is why someone will run into a building and give their life for a stranger – the emotion to serve, which comes from a meaning that by giving my own life, I am more significant. Your destiny is who you are going to become and what you are going to give in this lifetime. An important piece of Tony Robbins work at Date With Destiny is identifying what your top needs are from the 6 Human Needs. One of the biggest breakthroughs I had at Date With Destiny was changing the needs that I valued most. There were many other big pieces of day 1 of Date With Destiny, including a powerful exercise we did to change our story and to effectively blame the person in our life that has contributed the most to our story being the way it is.
On day 2 of Date With Destiny, Tony Robbins began talking about something called meta-program, along with the cycle of meaning and the spheres of influence.
Everything that we do, consciously or unconsciously, we do in order to meet one or more of our six human needs.
We all develop certain behaviours or actions, whether they be good or bad, to meet our needs. People that engage in destructive behaviours only do it when they are in a certain state: they feel bored, or stressed, or lonely, or anxious.
The ultimate force behind patterns or behaviour and emotions is your Model of the World, also known as your Blueprint, which consists of your rules and beliefs of why things are the way they are and how things should be. In any moment in time, the meaning you give to a situation is shaped by your Emotional Triad. The quickest way out of pain and into pleasure is by changing the Triad you are experiencing in the moment. Another big part of day 2 was creating your 4 primary Power Virtues and using the power of Incantations to really condition them into your nervous system. We then used Incantations to condition these new beliefs and virtues into our nervous system.
One of my favourite parts of Date With Destiny was experiencing a Oneness Blessing, which was one of the most profound spiritual experiences of my life. Everyone in the room got in a meditative state and cleared out our chakras, and then had these Oneness Blessers come by and touch us on our head, which gave me a profound experience. Another one of the most powerful parts of day 2 was discovering what my past Primary Question was, and then replacing it with a new Primary Question.
My Primary Question had benefitted me for years, as I was always focused on becoming better everyday, but also limited me without me realizing it. How can I become even better, while appreciating even more of who I am and the love that is inside of me right now? This is when you are no longer completely selfish and begin to care about your family, your friends, the people in your circle. A value is an emotional state that we believe is most important for us to experience or avoid.
We all have a hierarchy of values that are most important to us that we work harder to try to experience. Our Rules are the beliefs we have about what has to happen to experience our values, or emotional states. During day 3, we also did a Goal Setting Workshop to discover what our ultimate destiny is and who we want to become. There is nothing on this planet that will make you grow more spiritually than a relationship, as a relationship brings up our deepest fears of not being enough and not being loved. Sexual attraction, spiritual ecstasy, and intimate connection thrives in a relationship when there is a distinct polarity between the energies of the individuals involved. There are different types of masculine and feminine energy, what Tony Robbins calls Dark Masculine and Light Masculine, along with Dark Feminine and Light Feminine.
There are certain things that Tony Robbins pointed out that made a lot of sense to me and light bulbs went off.
There are three dimensions of a relationship, similar to the three levels of love that Tony Robbins describes that I mentioned in the Unleash The Power Within review. In a stage three relationship, you take total responsibility for how the other person feels. Most of this day was working with our buddy and spending countless hours discovering our new values and rules to the point where our brain turned to mush. The biggest breakthrough was getting rid of significance from my #1 value and putting love, happy, grateful, passion, etc… above being physically fit and success. As you can see, I added consistent, inappropriate and debilitating before many of these values as it is sometimes useful to experience these emotions, but not consistently or in debilitating or inappropriate ways.
I experience consistent, debilitating feelings of depression only if I were to consistently lie to myself and believe that I have no control over anything, instead of remembering how fortunate I really am and that I am in control of my life and how I feel. I experience consistent, debilitating feelings of laziness and procrastination only if I were to consistently do absolutely nothing that move me towards my ultimate destiny for a period of time, instead of realizing that I can easily make progress by taking simple actions. I experience consistent, debilitating feelings of unworthiness only if I were to consistently lie to myself about how I am not enough, instead of remembering the truth that I am someone of value and that everything in my life is outstanding. As you can see from these new rules, it’s very difficult for me now to experience depression, laziness, procrastination or unworthiness.
We also spent time on day 5 creating our mission statement, also known as the purpose of our life.
The purpose of my life is to be even more fully alive, grow and make a difference in the lives of others. This is something that empowers me daily and something that I can look at on my wall and it gets me motivated to take action.
One of the ways that we integrated these changes is through teaming up in a group of 4 and having to use incantations and a lot of energy to really condition our brains to believe these new changes. Overall, Date With Destiny was by far one of the most incredible, life-changing experiences of my life. I just want to give you props…you did an EXCELLENT job of encapsulating the experience! Congratulations on your effort, it is a great read and i have been to DWD 4 times now, just like UPW we get so much out of it and I love going back now working with others who just breakthrough like you have and i did, it is amazing and such a joy to be present there. Thanks Stefan for taking the time to really break it down for all of us, this is incredible, and I really appreciate you doing this!
Wow, I didn’t think it was possible for me to get more excited about attending DWD for the first time Dec. ABOUT STEFAN JAMESI'm a 7-figure internet entrepreneur and coach with a passion for living life to the fullest and fulfilling my potential as a human being. The answer, according to what I’ve learned from Tony Robbins, is that there are only 6 reasons why anyone does anything. This video blog explains what I’ve learned from Tony Robbins about the 6 Human Needs, what they are, and how you can use them to take your life to the next level. No matter who you are or what you do, there is a common force that is driving and shaping all of our emotions and actions. While our beliefs and values amongst human beings are different, the primal NEEDS that we have are universal. When you eat a cheesecake, you immediately meet your need for certainty – you relax and feel comfortable.
If you link 3 or more needs to any thought, feeling or behaviour – it becomes an addiction.
When you workout at the gym, you can meet your need for certainty as you feel like you’re in control and more confident. When you can identify all the ways that you’re meeting your needs through your behaviours, then you can start to change them. With this understanding, I’ve been able to overcome binge eating and other destructive habits in my life by identifying WHY I was doing them, and then finding better ways of meeting my needs with activities that empower me.

We all prioritize these needs differently from one another, giving us a different order of what we value most.
Unfortunately for most, having certainty and significance as your top 2 needs is the worst thing that you can have. When you have certainty as one of your top needs, it forces you to always have to have control over your world. If certainty is one of your top 2 needs, then you likely live in your comfort zone in life.
When you value certainty or significance above LOVE, then you don’t feel love or express it until you first feel totally certain and significant. After attending Unleash The Power Within and Date With Destiny multiple times, I’ve really been focused on changing my needs over the years. The need for significance was a huge driving for me to become successful and change myself. Most of my goals, motivation and focus lately has been more on connecting with and serving others. In the past, most of my goals were focused on MYSELF (significance driven), whereas now they are more focused on reaching a certain number of people through my blog, videos, products and services. I STILL have the need for significance, as we all do, but it’s just not my driving force as much anymore.
I’ll likely continue to attend Unleash The Power Within and all Tony Robbins events, as I always continuously learn, expand and develop myself by going. Thank you so much for your support, and if you have yet to leave a rating or review, please leave me an honest one on iTunes, YouTube or below on the blog.  I appreciate it! So if I got it right; We use these 6 needs to see for ourself how we can effectively replace destructive patterns. Ofcourse we need to change our beliefs accordingly too, otherwise the change won’t last. IMO this concept is a bit complicated but I might get more used to it the more I learn about it.
What I’ve noticed is that many people teach the same principles in a different approach. Hay tres decisiones que dan forma a nuestra vida y a nuestro destino y que son las unicas que dependen enteramente de nosotros. Anthony Robbins es un coach norteamericano mundialmente famoso y de un exito enorme, a quien conoci gracias a mi amigo Leonardo Maldonado. Podriamos llamar sindrome Iguazu, al fenomeno por el cual entramos en la vida sin tomar las decisiones clave de nuestro destino, y mas bien nos dejamos llevar por el flujo. Preguntas para la reflexion: Tu foco cotidiano, ?es el mas poderoso para alcanzar tus metas? La inquietud fundamental de empresas y trabajadores se relaciona con la capacidad de seguir siendo relevantes para sus clientes.
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Last week I shared an in-depth review of my experience at Day 1 of Unleash The Power Within, a 4-day Tony Robbins seminar held in New Jersey. In this blog post, I’m going to share some of the videos and powerful lessons of Day 2 of Unleash The Power Within. If you want to achieve anything in life, you need to know what the outcome or target is you’re after. One of the next important lessons from the video above of Joseph McClendon III is on the power of reinforcement. Your emotional state is something I explained during Day 1 of my Unleash The Power Within Review. Once you’re in a peak state and have unleashed your passion, the next step is to make a DECISION and COMMITMENT. This was such a powerful moment for me, as we put ourselves in the state to make a new empowering decision.
When you’re in a state of absolute CERTAINTY and you make a decision, it becomes a COMMITMENT. There were so many other amazing powerful moments during Day 2, unfortunately I won’t be able to  share them all in this Unleash The Power Within Review. PUSH Motivation is when you’re constantly pushing yourself and using your discipline and willpower to achieve your goal. The key is to tap into PULL Motivation, which is where you feel literally PULLED toward your goal.
The thing is, there are certain things in our lives that we feel PULLED towards that we enjoy doing. The strategy behind the exercise is that once we’ve EXPERIENCED SOMETHING and then have it taken away, we naturally feel pulled towards it again. There were so many other powerful lessons, experiences, and moments of Day 2 of Unleash The Power Within. It’s always important to have a vision or compelling future, something to look forward to. The strongest force in the human personality is the need to remain consistent with how we define ourselves. Tony Robbins talked about how the secret to Wealth and Happiness is to become a team player. You want to always see the good in others, and understand that they’re doing the best they can with the resources they have available.
If you want to grow and achieve what you want, make sure you’re surrounding yourself with people playing life at a higher level. That pretty much wraps up Day 2 of Unleash The Power Within with Tony Robbins and Joseph McClendon III. Was waiting for the Part 2… I loved all the videos and everything from your Day 1 review. Glad you enjoyed it Vlad, I’m so happy I took so many videos and did this review, so I can revisit the experience and share it with others.
It’s so easy to forget the teachings from his books and other media, but when you can read about them in this kind of format it makes them much easier. I’ve met many amazing people through events, seminars, and through social media like Facebook.
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Mother Theresa used to say, “You, in the West, have millions of people who suffer such terrible loneliness and emptiness.
It adds to confusion but eventually you’ll make up your own mind by seeing what works for you.
This was a bit complicated for me, and reading through this slowly, helped me to understand it more, and see how I can apply it to my own situation.
No solemos tener la conciencia de que nuestra mirada sobre el sentido de nuestra vida y nuestra circunstancia, es una interpretacion nuestra. El sentido que das a tu vida y a tu circunstancia, ?propicia estados de animo expansivos y mayores posibilidades? It was my 4th time attending, and this time I decided to take many videos and share experience with you on my blog. During Day 2, Joseph McClendon III was our speaker for most of the day, along with Tony Robbins via video. Everyone was still in a peak state from the night before, especially after walking over fire. One of my decisions at the Unleash The Power Within event was to compete in the WBFF Fitness Modelling Competition on June 23, 2012 in Vancouver. All decision making must be done from a peak state, otherwise you’re not likely to follow through on it long-term. But, willpower and discipline will NEVER last long-term, as you will eventually get burnt out.
It doesn’t require discipline or willpower, as you WANT to do the things that are necessary to achieve your outcome. Tony Robbins shared a powerful process that we went through to create that pull motivation. Well, what determines whether or not you get into state are whether or not you have a Compelling Future (a reason to use your skills) and your Identity (we don’t do what we can, we live what we believe we are). Also, whenever someone is angry or does something to hurt you, understand that it’s because they are in an UNRESOURCEFUL STATE. Find a team that will challenge you and force you to grow, not a team that is easy and comfortable.
I went to Date with Destiny last year (my first and only Tony event so far) and it was incredible. Only by taking care of ourselves do we stand a chance of being the kind of person we strive to be on the job, at home with our loved ones, and in our communities.
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The more we reward ourselves for doing the right things, the more likely we are to do them. This is why so many people fail, because they are PUSHING themselves to achieve an outcome, but it doesn’t last for more than a few days, weeks, or months. We did it by feeling and experiencing the outcome or goal that we want to have as if we’ve already achieved it, and then had it TAKEN AWAY from us.
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He travelled the world as a speaker of Robert Kyosaki’s (Rich Dad Poor Dad) Financial Intelligence and Fundamentals of Investing Programs. Esas interpretaciones nos tienen circunscriptos a la cancha donde se desarrolla nuestra vida. That’s okay though, because Joseph is a pretty amazing speaker and is right up there with Tony. Having compelling reasons why is what provides the fuel and motivation to take action towards what you want.
In fact, it takes discipline or willpower for me to NOT go to the gym – I literally have such a hard time taking days off. I’ve gotten so much out of writing these blog posts by reviewing these materials in such detail.
And just to add to the public speaking engagements, he was also a speaker in Anthony Robbins’ Wealth Mastery tours. Tenemos tendencias condicionadas que se expresan automaticamente y sin que muchas veces seamos conscientes. Es central adquirir una comprension mas profunda acerca de como es que construimos nuestras interpretaciones y de que son solo eso: nuestras construcciones.
Anna Akbari will talk about how you can increase your personal power and charisma simply by grooming and dressing better. En primer lugar, distinguir con claridad los hechos que ocurren y que observamos, de nuestras formas de valorarlos. Una mirada alternativa es ver la accion como algo que ocurre a partir de la generacion de conversaciones. This is what the most successful people do, whether it be Thomas Edison inventing the light-bulb or Colonel Sanders selling his chicken recipe. She'll go into the science of why some of our tendency to judge is hardwired in our biology as well as the cultural factors influencing perception. En segundo lugar, distinguir que referencias, preferencias o mas en general, que estandares, se encuentran detras de cada valoracion.
Podriamos decir que ninguna de esas actividades y movimientos ocurren sin que hayan conversaciones previas que hacen que ocurran.
Esto abre la posibilidad de elegir que estandares queremos que rijan nuestra vida en un dado dominio. Esto es bien claro en un equipo de trabajo, nada va a ocurrir si las personas que conforman el equipo no se coordinan para hacerlo ocurrir.
Hay quienes hacen foco en su temor en lugar de en sus propositos o quienes hacen foco en quienes son los causantes de una dada circunstancia en lugar de hacer foco en que acciones podria emprender si es que quiero cambiar esas circunstancias.
Aun las grandes decisiones individuales, si se fijan, tambien ocurren porque hay una conversacion privada en la que evaluamos nuestras circunstancias y declaramos para nosotros mismos un nuevo curso de accion. Como por ejemplo ,as creencias respecto de la falta de valor o competencia personal, o la creencia acerca de la propia impotencia para cambiar las cosas.

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