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A recent column by a pregnant Tribune reporter rekindled the heated discussion: Why don't men (especially young men) give up their seats to pregnant women? On this commute, two men, who appeared to be their 30s, sat right in front of me, one reading a book, the other his smartphone. And here the nonscientific study begins: I asked the woman why she gave up her seat for me. Here at CTA Tattler, we've discussed this topic a number of times, and of course we still haven't figured it out.
Like the reporter above, most pregnant women don't want to call out men (or women) to give up their seat from them.
While the issue you pose is offering a pregnant women on CTA, the real is issue is not a CTA issue, but just common courtesy that seems to have become lost with many (not all) over the last couple of decades. In a sharp contrast, we took a babymoon in Barcelona during the middle of her 2nd trimester and we experienced the exact opposite. Maybe American society, especially young adults, are too encapsulated in a bubble whether that bubble consists of their own thoughts or an electronic device (don't get me started on the number of people I see on a daily basis almost get hit by cars in the Loop while they are in their bubbles). If a woman is not clearly pregnant and is in the gray zone of "that could be stomach fat," I won't make the offer.
That being said, sometimes it's during those trying 1st trimester days, when you're not showing, that you kind of wish you were- so maybe someone would sympathize and offer you a seat. Like what JPesos said, in Barcelona -- nobody sat there and "didn't notice", probably because they weren't raised by wolves like here. And yes, Grandma could stand there and pass-out on the floor ignored -- and they might just step over her getting in & out the door.
I remember while in HS riding the #6 northbound the bus had reached capacity by 71st Street - there was a pregnant woman who had to board and the driver stopped the bus, turned around, and pleaded with the people to move back and allow the woman to board. And if it makes any difference now: you weren't the one who behaved badly back then on the LIRR. Though I am a gentleman and often will give up my seat, open doors, or even just offer random help to a woman who looks like she needs it, I have a problem with this logic.
Feminists and Women's Rights movements clamor for "Equality" and while doing so speak out about how men deny them equal rights.
I also wonder how when you start shaming a guy who is sitting while a woman (pregnant or otherwise) is standing you inherently know that the man you are berating doesn't have a ankle, knee, or back problem? So even though I feel it is right to give your seat to others who need it more, I also feel that this idea of shaming someone who is sitting that you don't think should be sitting could be extremely insensitive to that person if they do have a legitimate reason to need to take a seat. I was raised to believe that a man always offered his seat to a woman, irrespective of age or condition. Curtis Mayfield wrote a song about this (although not specifically about pregnant women) in 1971. Somehow Carter got the word that the Claypool crying games are over, and maybe CTA should listen to the communities. The most leading edge, up-to-date personal development, self-help and life success ideas around. A couple of retired teachers bantering back-and-forth about contemporary issues - from Kurds to Kardashians. A pregnant woman in Ceilandia, Brazil, destroyed her husband's car after discovering his alleged infidelity.First she smashed the windscreen until it was barely attached to the rest of the car, and then she jumped up and down on the roof. Finally, she threw a rock through the back window.The incident, which was recorded by an amused onlooker, came after the woman found her husband and another woman a€“ believed to be his mistress a€“ having lunch in a restaurant. Behind me sat two other nonpregnant men, one staring off into space with headphones on, another looking at his smartphone.
As we approached a stop, I tightened my grip on the pole, and made room for another influx of passengers. Since I am not one of the cattle huddling near the front or by the doors and move to the rear I am not sitting in priority seating. Then, when I was in my early 20's, I offered a seat to a girl, close to my age, on the Long Island Rail Road. If I am sitting on the bus in a pear of jeans there is no indication of the underlying health problems I face.
There are many good observations: 1) You can't assume that a woman is pregnant, especially as a man.
I thanked her as she told a boy with her, who was clutching an oversized suitcase, to make more room for me on the bench. Even if they've never been pregnant themselves, women understand the toll pregnancy takes on the female body. Nobody told me to give up my seat to an elderly, disabled or pregnant woman, I think I just saw someone do it for someone growing up, and it just made sense to me. I have a 50 minute commute every day, am I looking up at every stop to see if someone is pregnant and needing a seat at every stop? Men have been taught that treating women as weak and incapable of managing their own lives, pregnant or not is a serious no-no.
However as young men we have had- beaten into our brains- that women are not weak, do not open doors for them, do not help them with their coats etc.
We carried it proudly all the way back to one of their houses and proceeded to patch the hole with a piece of plywood and tar. The armed forces are dealing with this lack of real equality in a different way: note the different Physical Test requirements for men and women.
If I were to see a pregnant lady, I would offer my seat, unfortunately I am usually in my own little world. Add to that, any Chicago commuter knows you simply block out others around you on a crowded L car or run the risk of some crazy person telling you their entire life story, or trying something creepy, and you have commuter blind people. 3) Some women chafe greatly at being offered a seat, and express their rejection with scorn, ridicule, and an aggrieved sense of "rights." What's worse is when someone is obviously pregnant and still refuses the offer of a seat.
But it is a huge mistake simply to think that just standing there while pregnant will get you a seat. I think the best option in our current climate is for pregnant women to politely ask if someone will give up their seat. He may have had a hip or knee replacement that isn't visible or an artificial leg making it next to impossible to stand for long periods. One of the boys found a canoe paddle in the weeds and we three got into the boat and started to paddle out.
That's far different than standing there while pregnant and thinking people can read your mind that you want a seat. We feverishly paddled with that one oar and bailed out the water with our hands and an old can. Barely we made it to shore and got out just before the boat sank below the water and headed downstream. It only takes one such incident to show an entire L car full of men never to do that again. Wet, cold and shaking the three of us headed home knowing we would never tell our parents of this stupid adventure. We were lucky to be alive and it was only by Goda€™s grace that I can live to tell about it.
We don't know what's inside your head if you don't say, expecting people to just "know" is sort of ridiculous. Sometimes that other road will bring you back to your original path and sometimes it will take you farther away from it.
But God used him to gather and lead his people out of Pharaoha€™s slavery and split the Red Sea in two.A Joseph was sold into slavery by his brothers and was cast into prison but became the second most powerful person inEgypt. Or, maybe just maybe a smile or a kind word from you to a stranger may just prevent them from going home and ending their own life and their grandson will some day save the world.
He will bring to light things that are now hidden in darkness, and will make known the secret purposes of people's hearts. Throw your troubled waters out of your boat and paddle on down that river of life with Him at your side.
You have ears, but you don't really listen.Psalm 13:2 -- How long must I worry and feel sad in my heart all day? I have been praying for something to happen for 4A? years now and what I prayed for was not granted. Leta€™s speak of reality a€“ He is God and He can do what He wants to or not do what He doesna€™t want to. We cannot command the Lord to do anything whether we do it in pleading, tears, anger, or desperation. If God has the will, He may answer our prayers about life but nothing says that He absolutely has to. All we have is the hope that he will hear us, see what we are going through, and grant us a little drop of His mercy in this life.
He will cure a cancer, heal the deaf, grow an arm back or bring someone back to life but that does not mean He will do it all the time. He has given us guidance through His word (the Bible) and occasionally gives us a nudge or lesson to learn from but basically kicks us out of the nest like the mother bird does to face the challenges of life.
I get so frustrated at times that my prayers are not answered and I have to keep reminding myself that this is my life and I need to deal with it on my own sometimes. Their job is to preach the message to inspire, encourage, and give hope to their congregations. If we are to be an example of His mercy to others, it can only be done with people of lesser stature than us. He wants us to spread the Gospel and not make up stories of what He has done for us personally in life.
Just show others how you believe in His salvation and forgiveness and tell them of His Word. He has promised everything in His kingdom of Heaven to those who accept His Son as Lord and Savior. Life here is just a temporary setback, trial and test to see if we are worthy of everlasting life sharing in His love -- or without it in a very dark place. So accept His Son as your Lord and claim the only real promise that He made to us --- Forgiveness and Salvation.
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