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Emma Watson has been Hollywood’s sweetheart ever since she first appear on the big screen as Harry Potter’s brainy friend Hermione Granger. I wear size medium shirts, size seven jeans, and (in case you were wondering) size eight shoes. I have never experienced a doctor dismissing my concerns with a “lose weight, feel great!” remedy. And I can open an article with my measurements without fear of judgment. I walk through this world as a thin person. And as such, I have never experienced fat discrimination.
Because it’s so easy to fall back on tired old excuses for why we’re not privileged – and I see this a lot when the topic of thin privilege is broached. But I think it’s time for us to look at these excuses (and how they don’t hold up in the grand scheme of things) a little more closely. Because yes, sticks and stones may break your bones, but damn it, words really can hurt you. It is woven throughout social institutions, as well as embedded within individual consciousness. For example, if you make a “fat joke,” everyone around you is going to understand it – because the cultural belief that fat is something to laugh at is widespread. Structural limits significantly shape a person’s life chances and sense of possibility in ways beyond the individual’s control.
Dominant or privileged groups benefit, often in unconscious ways, from the disempowerment of subordinated or targeted groups.
The negative attitudes toward you as a privileged person aren’t pervasive, restricting, or hierarchal.
You aren’t losing out on anything just because someone’s words, actions, or beliefs had an emotional impact on you. And when you move past it – even if it takes years of work, which it very well may – that’s it.
Oppression never goes away because everywhere you go, everything you see, and everyone you know reiterates and reinforces it.
I made a video this summer called ‘How to Get a Bikini Body.’ It repeated the oft-seen-on-social-media body-positive mantra “Put a bikini on your body!” theme.
And people were quick to comment that my message lost its meaning because my body adheres to societal beauty standards.
But the difference between these negative feelings and fatphobia is this: The only person worrying about whether or not I’m meeting beauty standards is me. And while your internal struggle is real and significant, the point is: You might hate your body, but society doesn’t. Before you worry that I’m going to disregard or otherwise undermine the bullying involved in skinny-shaming, let me reassure you: I’m not going to do that. I would never tell you that jabs at your “chicken legs” or insinuations (or outright proclamations) that you must have an eating disorder aren’t hurtful or that their effects aren’t far-reaching. But what I am going to argue is this: As horrible as skinny-shaming is (and it is!), what makes it different is that it does not involve a pervasive fear or hatred of thin bodies.
And while its personal effects are certainly influential, it is not restrictive on a social level. But these types of reclamations of fat pride wouldn’t need to exist if fat-shaming wasn’t a thing.


These types of phrases and attitudes were born of a need to say “I’m beautiful, too!” They’re responses to social norms. And while you certainly shouldn’t encourage them if they feel like put-downs, what you need to remember about these phrases, in the words of Lindy West is, “’I’m proud to be fat’ is still a radical statement.
Society wants you to recognize that being thin is “in” – but not too thin, not that thin – because the goal is to keep you insecure. The “So-and-So Has Cellulite!” headline is right next to the “Does So-and-So Have an Eating Disorder?” story.
They (and you can insert anyone you want here for “they” – society, the media, the dieting industry, the executive board for Patriarchy, Inc.) want women to continue to chase after unattainable goals.
But the difference is that the discrimination that fat people experience is at the intersection of sexism and fatphobia. So while, yes, shaming anyone is wrong and bad and sexist, fat-shaming is rooted in extra factors that skinny-shaming is not.
And when you feel trapped in and controlled by your body, when you’ve reached that level of self-consciousness, when you’re suffering every single day just to make it through, it’s unlikely that you’ll feel like you’re experiencing privilege.
That is: The marginalization that you experience as a person living with an eating disorder is a result of the disorder, not a result of your body. A person with an eating disorder can experience ableism and still benefit from their thin privilege. But the bottom line that we have to remember is this: Are my negative experiences related to my body grievances, or are they pervasive issues on a societal level? And if you have your thin privilege in check, you’ll be better able to recognize that most of the time, these issues fall into the former category. This is the desperately sad story of the thinnest woman in the world who weighs just four stone after years of extreme dieting. What is most worrying is that Valeria, originally from Russia but who now lives in Monaco, says she gets fan mail from girls desperate to copy her skeletal look.
Valeria, pictured as she is today, was banned from ballet at the age of 24 over concerns she would injure herself as she weighed just six stone Valeria, who developed her eating disorder as a teenager, has chosen to speak out about how the illness has ruined her life.
She believes the roots of her condition lie with her mother, who was terrified Valeria would grow up obese like her relatives. Valeria was weighed often to ensure she hadna€™t gained any weight, such was her mothera€™s drive for perfection.At 16, and weighing 10st, Valeria moved to Chicago with her parents.
For the next ten years she saw more than 30 health specialists, though once dipped to a dangerously low 3st 10lbs. Now 39, Valeria says she is desperate to get better and fulfill her dream of becoming a mother. The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. I’m a feminist, but I think that romance has been taken away a bit for my generation. When I started dating I had this kind of Romeo and Juliet, fateful romantic idea about love which was almost that you were a victim and there was a lot of pain involved and that was how it should be. I could be 100 years old and in my rocker, but i’ll still be very proud that I was part of the Harry Potter films. Funnily enough, In the first Harry Potter film, you can see me mouthing Harry and Ron’s lines as well because that’s just how I was. You can’t go to the pharmacy without someone saying, “Hey, you’re the girl from Harry Potter!” and I’m like “Yeah!


By virtue of not having access to these privileges, the lives of larger people are limited.
If thinness is heralded as the status quo, then that continues to put thin people in positions of power when it comes to determining what “average” (or “preferable”) is. I believe whole-heartedly that the body-positive community needs to be open to all body types.
And referring to someone’s partner as a dog just because they like someone’s body is degrading.
An able-bodied woman can experience sexism and still benefit from her able-bodied privilege.
It’s easy to feel defensive when you mistake someone’s asking you to check your privilege for their making assumptions about your life.
Fabello, Managing Editor of Everyday Feminism, is a domestic violence prevention and sexuality educator, eating disorder and body image activist, and media literacy vlogger based out of Philadelphia.
But rather than feel sorry for herself, Valeria Levitin says her emaciated figure should be a severe wake-up call for girls wanting matchstick-thin figures.At 5ft 8in, she should weigh between 9st and 12st, according to NHS advice. The 39-year-old told The Sun: a€?I have received emails from young girls who want me to teach them how to be like me. Desperate to fit in at a new school, she thought that if she lost weight, she would be accepted and liked. Single for a decade, she says relationships are difficult as she is unable to do the normal things that couples do, as going to restaurants.Now, she believes she cannot be cured simply by going to a doctor, having never gained weight after seeing a specialist.
She also wants to serve as a warning to others about the dangers of extreme dietingShe said: 'I would love to have a family because I feel I have so much to give. Throughout her time in the public eye, she has never showed an affinity for fame and attention, which is refreshing considering how fascinated we are by her.
I want to be the person who feels great in her body and can say that she loves it and doesn’t want to change anything. I think what people connect with in novels is this idea of an overpowering, encompassing love — and it being more important and special than anything and everything else.
Just like playing a song, picking up a book again that has memories can take you back to another place or another time. She enjoys rainy days, Jurassic Park, and the occasional Taylor Swift song and can be found on YouTube and Tumblr.
Tell that crap to Eva Longoria, Eva Mendes, Sofia Vergara, Salma Hayek, Penelope Cruz and Jennifer Lopez (who are all her senior but workout to keep it tight).
It shattered my whole world.'By the time she was 23, Valeriaa€™s dress size had plummeted from a healthy size 12 to a tiny size six. Ia€™ve never given up on anything in my life and Ia€™m not about to give up now.'Valeria would like people suffering from eating disorders like hers to get help. Deciding to become a model made the situation even worse, as she was told she was still too fat to succeed. I like a girl who is thin, yet these girls are beyond thin, there almost bones with clothes on!
As her weight continued to plummet, by the age of 24 and weighing just six stone, she was banned from dancing over concerns she would injure herself.




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